Meeting her friends.

[Billy_J]

Originally Posted by reed067

...She said my biggest fear should be her 18 year old daughter who has already checked me out on FB & told me that I BETTER be good to her! Maybe I'm in fear of the wrong person.

Well that is a good sign!

It is unusual these days for a kid to be concerned about anyone else than themselves. And that would be a good reflection on her mom. Sounds like you found a good woman/family!

I would mention that to the daughter, compliment her on being that way (concerned about her mother). Then say you really like her mom, ask what are good things you could do for her.

Basically discuss it.

Also I would bet that since it appears both mom and daughter are good people, that the mom would probably pick a pretty good guy (you). Also you are concerned about how this meeting will go - Again a good thing in that you are thinking about people other than yourself. (Not selfish.)

Bottom line - Not to worry. You will be fine!
Just be yourself.

[reed067]

Originally Posted by Billy_J

Also you are concerned about how this meeting will go - Again a good thing in that you are thinking about people other than yourself. (Not selfish.)

Bottom line - Not to worry. You will be fine!
Just be yourself.

Thanks & she keeps telling me not to worry about it either.

[lovesMountains]

Originally Posted by oh-eve

My advice is: Girls always like a gentleman, don't forget to open the door for your gf, help her into the chair, take the jacket. Let her friends see what a good catch you are.

Don't be too talkative and talk too much out of desperation.

Agreed. Good manners make a great impression.

Also, don't monopolize the conversation, but have some input in it for sure.

Try to relax!

[purehuman]

Originally Posted by reed067

OK, so I've been seeing this women for a little over a month & now she she wants me to meet her friends. I've always dreaded this part of going out with someone. It seems one of those things that can make or break a new relationship. I keep hearing from this women just be yourself & it will be fine. I tend to over think things at times & this is a big deal to me. In all honesty I'm not why this scares me.


Any advice?

reed067...you like this girl? she's going out with you isn't she? guess that means she's got good taste...enjoy meeting her friends, she obviously likes you enough to want to show you off....trust her judgement, and yourself as well.