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Old 10-02-2012, 08:50 PM
 
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Originally Posted by *Sixy* View Post
There are always going to be people like that in this world.
So you rid yourself of them.

The problem with the OP is he hasn't done that and this person sees that as "permission" to continue on treating him that way.
You've said it best.

That's the price of not tolerating lying:

Being single.
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Old 10-02-2012, 08:51 PM
 
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You've said it best.

That's the price of not tolerating lying:

Being single.
Well, in that case being single isn't such a bad thing.
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Old 10-02-2012, 08:53 PM
 
Location: PA/NJ
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Believe it or not she was one of the ones I dated that wasn't like all those others...
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Old 10-02-2012, 08:55 PM
 
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Well, in that case being single isn't such a bad thing.
I'd much rather be in a good relationship than be single though...
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Old 10-02-2012, 08:56 PM
 
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Believe it or not she was one of the ones I dated that wasn't like all those others...
And you found it to be otherwise...

Keep lookin.
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Old 10-02-2012, 08:58 PM
 
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I'd much rather be in a good relationship than be single though...
I always wanted to stay single,it's easier to dump em then;
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Old 10-02-2012, 08:59 PM
 
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And you found it to be otherwise...

Keep lookin.
She's actually still not as bad as most of the others,there are just some things to hammer out.
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Old 10-02-2012, 09:00 PM
 
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We've fought many times over such things and...she just denies so what good will it do?...

What good is it doing posting here? If you cannot seem to have an honest relationship with this girl why do you continue to see her? Don't you think the practical and logical thing to do would be to leave her behind and move on? Less stress, less frustration, less fighting, less lies being told or at the very least you could be told new shiny pretty lies by a new shiny pretty girl, it will at least change it up for a wee bit.
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Old 10-02-2012, 09:42 PM
 
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When you're in a 10 year relationship,7 married you can't just 'rid' yourself of the person...if there were many other reasons on top of that then that would be enough to move on.
what does time have to do with anything?
you may still have legal ties to these people but you in no way need to further you personal relationship with them. your acceptance of this behavior is giving them all they need to continue doing so.
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Old 10-03-2012, 07:22 AM
 
Location: PA/NJ
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What good is it doing posting here? If you cannot seem to have an honest relationship with this girl why do you continue to see her? Don't you think the practical and logical thing to do would be to leave her behind and move on? Less stress, less frustration, less fighting, less lies being told or at the very least you could be told new shiny pretty lies by a new shiny pretty girl, it will at least change it up for a wee bit.
Apparently you've not read the whole thread...and the part where it says we've been married for a few years?...Can't just 'dump this girl',this isn't high school.
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