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Old 10-13-2012, 10:05 PM
 
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Cap'n Jack gone out of character, and has sided with women on Ipfan's threads today, though. (Mark this day on your calendar.) And he just rep-messaged me that he was, indeed, being sarcastic.
He stated he sided with women and white knights.

Telling it seems for CaptainJack saying anything remotely positive about gals is being a white knight.

He reminds me of a guy who would claim all the misogynistic sh*t he said was sarcasm and jokes.

 
Old 10-13-2012, 10:07 PM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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That's probably a good point. But nobody seems to want to offer any suggestions on that front except for one suggestion to not tell women they are beautiful.
Here we go again. We've tried. Oh man, have we tried. But it seems you aren't satisfied until you feel like a victim. You are not a victim. You ignore advice and you antagonize people until they snap back at you. Just face it. You don't want advice. You don't want help. If that were the case - you would be listening to the advice. You would be listening to the help. You wouldn't keep hurling out the insults and crazy schemes - you would be trying to improve yourself and your life. Instead - you keep playing with fire and then getting upset when some ashes land on you.
 
Old 10-13-2012, 10:08 PM
 
Location: Central California
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That's probably a good point. But nobody seems to want to offer any suggestions on that front except for one suggestion to not tell women they are beautiful.
I would have to see you talk to women to be able to tell you what's wrong.

What kind of clothes do you wear? Have you ever had anyone critique your mannerisms?

What do you usually say when you first approach a girl?

Are you having fun with girls?

Do you make moves?

Do you come off as desperate?

I gave you advice in previous threads. Meet guys that are good with women, watch what they do, pick their brains, then emulate them until you get your own style.
 
Old 10-13-2012, 10:09 PM
 
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That's probably a good point. But nobody seems to want to offer any suggestions on that front except for one suggestion to not tell women they are beautiful.
Untrue I offered the suggestions to:
- lower your standards
- seek foreign gals
- seek escorts
- seek prostitutes
- seek mail order brides
- improve your attractiveness, wealth, status, or personality so it outweighs your misogyny
- develop a healthy coping mechanism for rejection and lessen your misogyny to better attract gals

Off-note it's telling how common it seems for guys to have a misogynistic, bitter, or resentful attitude towards gals because they aren't f*cking the gals they want that get laid seems to be the go-to for guys like the OP. Seems I'm likely correct in my perception that most guys are misogynists or have a misogyny phase.
 
Old 10-13-2012, 10:11 PM
 
Location: Philadelphia, PA
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I also think there are a disproportionate number of rather extreme feminists on this forum relative to the overall population. I posed my original question to several female friends of mine, as well as on other sites, about whether rich people or women were more powerful and corrupt. Most women readily admitted that women's control of sex gives them a great deal of power, similar to rich people's control of money. A lot of women seem to agree that it is about neck and neck. Most of these women don't consider themselves feminists, but even one of my friends who is herself a moderate feminist admitted that a number of women do indeed use their sexuality to hurt men.
 
Old 10-13-2012, 10:12 PM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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I also think there are a disproportionate number of rather extreme feminists on this forum relative to the overall population. I posed my original question to several female friends of mine, as well as on other sites, about whether rich people or women were more powerful and corrupt. Most women readily admitted that women's control of sex gives them a great deal of power, similar to rich people's control of money. A lot of women seem to agree that it is about neck and neck. Most of these women don't consider themselves feminists, but even one of my friends who is herself a moderate feminist admitted that a number of women do indeed use their sexuality to hurt men.
Sure they did.

So are you saying that you actually have female friends? I thought all women were arrogant and mean?
 
Old 10-13-2012, 10:13 PM
 
Location: SF CA, USA
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Please OP, don't join those MRA movements, they will only make it worse, trust me. There are occasional good points raised by MRA people but it's lost in the storm of vitriol and hate.

Perhaps a relationship therapist would be better? I haven't been to a dating/relationship focused coach or therapist but I have one for my depression, and have had one since I was 17, it's been very helpful.
 
Old 10-13-2012, 10:13 PM
 
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I also think there are a disproportionate number of rather extreme feminists on this forum relative to the overall population. I posed my original question to several female friends of mine, as well as on other sites, about whether rich people or women were more powerful and corrupt. Most women readily admitted that women's control of sex gives them a great deal of power, similar to rich people's control of money. A lot of women seem to agree that it is about neck and neck. Most of these women don't consider themselves feminists, but even one of my friends who is herself a moderate feminist admitted that a number of women do indeed use their sexuality to hurt men.
No different than a number of men using their sexuality to hurt gals ala rape, sexual assault, sexual harassment, street harassment, and deceptive pumping & dumping.

Or take yourself for example using your sexuality of you being attracted to a gal and knowing she can say no to attempt to morally shame gals into f*cking guys on demand otherwise they're arrogant, mean, and flaunting their bodies to taunt guys.

Bit curious as to whether your female friends know you're beginning to hate gals, think gals in general are arrogant and picky, and think it's mean that gals can say no and choose who they have sex with.
 
Old 10-13-2012, 10:14 PM
 
Location: Central California
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I also think there are a disproportionate number of rather extreme feminists on this forum relative to the overall population. I posed my original question to several female friends of mine, as well as on other sites, about whether rich people or women were more powerful and corrupt. Most women readily admitted that women's control of sex gives them a great deal of power, similar to rich people's control of money. A lot of women seem to agree that it is about neck and neck. Most of these women don't consider themselves feminists, but even one of my friends who is herself a moderate feminist admitted that a number of women do indeed use their sexuality to hurt men.
Nah, there's only like 3 or 4 that are REALLY bad. They seem to be drawn to your posts.

There are some really cool chicks on this forum, but I guess they, understandably, don't want to get involved in threads like this.
 
Old 10-13-2012, 10:14 PM
 
Location: Philadelphia, PA
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For the record, i have tried, unsuccessfully, to date and sleep with most of said female friends... i'm sure that question is coming soon.
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