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So texted this girl for a few weeks. Was more just looking for someone to chat with - shared a common interest. Had a lot more in common than I thought we would. We both initiated conversation. A lot of it was getting to know each other personally. Talked pretty much all the time almost from the beginning. Then just get not that interested from her. I’ve never chatted this well with someone before. Maybe I misread the signals. I thought if girls were giving a lot of attention they were interested. I’ve never really been able to gauge women well... Any thoughts on what went wrong?
So texted this girl for a few weeks. Was more just looking for someone to chat with - shared a common interest. Had a lot more in common than I thought we would. We both initiated conversation. A lot of it was getting to know each other personally. Talked pretty much all the time almost from the beginning. Then just get not that interested from her. I’ve never chatted this well with someone before. Maybe I misread the signals. I thought if girls were giving a lot of attention they were interested. I’ve never really been able to gauge women well... Any thoughts on what went wrong?
You just chatted and didn't set a place to meet up in person. You need to stop chatting and take it to the next level...meeting in person.
That's the problem with today's society, people and their devices, chatting and texting, but taking issue with face-to-face , in person meeting.
So texted this girl for a few weeks. Was more just looking for someone to chat with - shared a common interest. Had a lot more in common than I thought we would. We both initiated conversation. A lot of it was getting to know each other personally. Talked pretty much all the time almost from the beginning. Then just get not that interested from her. I’ve never chatted this well with someone before. Maybe I misread the signals. I thought if girls were giving a lot of attention they were interested. I’ve never really been able to gauge women well... Any thoughts on what went wrong?
Not enough info to reply.
Did she stopped contacting you? Not answering your txt msg? How long ago?
Or how else she showed her disinterest in you?
I’m sorry I did a poor job of explaining. After a few weeks I admitted I liked her and she just said not interested in that way /moving forward to date. Maybe I was too slow... obv not talking anymore
Oh I forgot to mention she has a boyfriend. But she was talking to me a lot. Maybe she just liked the attention?
You knew she had a boyfriend, but you continued to text her, now accuse her of “liking the attention”. Well then, in that situation, maybe you liked the rejection??
You knew she had a boyfriend, but you continued to text her, now accuse her of “liking the attention”. Well then, in that situation, maybe you liked the rejection??
I meant that was why she texted me back so much - just as a suggestion. Maybe she just really thought of me as a very good friend? One other thought was she did like me but not enough to take action
But I like the originality (“liked the rejection”) there still. I’d rather be rejected than strung along as a fake boyfriend or I don’t know what.
Boyfriend might have seen the texts and demanded she delete your number.
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