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I met this guy in December of last year. We've hung out a few times for about five months. He took me out and paid for all our dates.He asked me to be his gf after about three months of dating but I told him I needed more time to think about it. We never had sex. The farthest we've gone was kissing. The reason we stopped seeing each other was maybe my fault. He asked me to go out but I always had something planned already or work schedule didn't match so I always ended up turning down his invitations. I guess he got tired of asking and he just stopped initiating dates. We still text here and there but not really spending time together.
About two months ago, he asked me again if I wanted to be his gf. I didn't really give him a yes or no answer. Anyway, I've noticed that he brings up sex topic alot when I talk to him on the phone or texts but I always switch the conversation to something else. He says things like " I want you so bad", " I love your tight little butt", " I want to go down on you", Mostly sexual stuff. Lately, hes been inviting me to hang out at his place, to cuddle instead of going out but I never accepted. When I say I'm not ready to have sex with him, he says its ok we can just cuddle. He also says that he doesn't need a friend but he needs a gf. I feel like his complaining that we've known each other for a year and we've never done anything more than just kissing. It makes me wonder if he just wants sex from me. What do you guys think?
he sounds like moron and a pervert. Good luck with that.
About two months ago, he asked me again if I wanted to be his gf. I didn't really give him a yes or no answer. Anyway, I've noticed that he brings up sex topic alot when I talk to him on the phone or texts but I always switch the conversation to something else. He says things like " I want you so bad", " I love your tight little butt", " I want to go down on you", Mostly sexual stuff. Lately, hes been inviting me to hang out at his place, to cuddle instead of going out but I never accepted. When I say I'm not ready to have sex with him, he says its ok we can just cuddle. He also says that he doesn't need a friend but he needs a gf. I feel like his complaining that we've known each other for a year and we've never done anything more than just kissing. It makes me wonder if he just wants sex from me. What do you guys think?
It seems like you two aren't a good match. You should let him know, so he can move on.
I like him I think he's an attractive guy but I'm not emotionally attached maybe because we haven't had sex. Maybe I would be more into him once we had sex.
I wouldn't recommend ignoring your own feelings and preferences (to get to know him better and form a bond, as you posted earlier) just to satisfy him. You two aren't on the same wavelength. Both of you can find better matches for yourselves. Move on.
he sounds like moron and a pervert. Good luck with that.
Sounds like my kind of man. Maybe minus the moron part.
Maybe it's just me, but if a guy didn't want to sleep with me I'd wonder why. That's a big part of attraction. You can choose whether or not to let him have you.
I met this guy in December of last year. We've hung out a few times for about five months. He took me out and paid for all our dates.He asked me to be his gf after about three months of dating but I told him I needed more time to think about it. We never had sex. The farthest we've gone was kissing. The reason we stopped seeing each other was maybe my fault. He asked me to go out but I always had something planned already or work schedule didn't match so I always ended up turning down his invitations. I guess he got tired of asking and he just stopped initiating dates. We still text here and there but not really spending time together.
About two months ago, he asked me again if I wanted to be his gf. I didn't really give him a yes or no answer. Anyway, I've noticed that he brings up sex topic alot when I talk to him on the phone or texts but I always switch the conversation to something else. He says things like " I want you so bad", " I love your tight little butt", " I want to go down on you", Mostly sexual stuff. Lately, hes been inviting me to hang out at his place, to cuddle instead of going out but I never accepted. When I say I'm not ready to have sex with him, he says its ok we can just cuddle. He also says that he doesn't need a friend but he needs a gf. I feel like his complaining that we've known each other for a year and we've never done anything more than just kissing. It makes me wonder if he just wants sex from me. What do you guys think?
He tried one approach, that didn't work so he regrouped and is trying a different angle. If he wanted only sex he probably wouldn't be putting this much effort into you.
he is done spending money on u since he know he won't get any. lol. if it were me, i won't accept the invitation especially since he is very vocal he wants sex. WTF is up with we just cuddle thingy. go buy a blow up doll to cuddle or this:
and stop inviting me to your house horny perv. lol. by the way my link. lol just found it recently who ever bought those must really be sad. and they're pricey too!!
I wanna be sad too...they're cool, thanks for the link. They are a little pricey, might have to settle for a torso.
I like him I think he's an attractive guy but I'm not emotionally attached maybe because we haven't had sex. Maybe I would be more into him once we had sex.
You dated him for 3 months and you still weren't sure.
Honey, you're just not that into him. Cut the guy loose. Tell him it's never going to happen with you, and leave him alone so he can find someone else. I sense that the only reason you're still communicating with him is because you like the attention, not the man himself. That's a lousy thing to do to a guy.
He's an attractive man, educated, and he's family is wealthy. He's the only son but has one stepsister. I'm sure hes getting sex somewhere else. That's what makes me wonder if he only sticks around till I give it up and leave because I made him wait this long. But he asked me to be his gf tho.
I met this guy in December of last year. We've hung out a few times for about five months. He took me out and paid for all our dates.He asked me to be his gf after about three months of dating but I told him I needed more time to think about it. We never had sex. The farthest we've gone was kissing. The reason we stopped seeing each other was maybe my fault. He asked me to go out but I always had something planned already or work schedule didn't match so I always ended up turning down his invitations. I guess he got tired of asking and he just stopped initiating dates. We still text here and there but not really spending time together.
About two months ago, he asked me again if I wanted to be his gf. I didn't really give him a yes or no answer. Anyway, I've noticed that he brings up sex topic alot when I talk to him on the phone or texts but I always switch the conversation to something else. He says things like " I want you so bad", " I love your tight little butt", " I want to go down on you", Mostly sexual stuff. Lately, hes been inviting me to hang out at his place, to cuddle instead of going out but I never accepted. When I say I'm not ready to have sex with him, he says its ok we can just cuddle. He also says that he doesn't need a friend but he needs a gf. I feel like his complaining that we've known each other for a year and we've never done anything more than just kissing. It makes me wonder if he just wants sex from me. What do you guys think?
Oh he is playing you he wants sex. Must not be getting any from anyone else. So he thinks he can wear you down.
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