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Old 12-08-2012, 03:02 PM
 
Location: Central California
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Prime example of what we were just discussing in the other thread. Disrespectful towards women. How do you even know what most of us look like, we have private profiles. And considering most of the women here are not 16 years old anymore, who said we can't analyse ourselves? Bear in mind many of us are happily married, we can't hate men that much or be that hideous. But no, you have to make your usual rude generalisations don't you.
Just because you're married doesn't mean that you don't hate men or are not hideous.

That just means that you had ONE guy that liked you. For all we know, you could treat him like crap. We only have your word to go by.
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Old 12-08-2012, 03:03 PM
 
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Do you know what's actually funny? Your posts about not being able to get girls. They really make me laugh.

You're obviously a much better authority on women than any of us. I'm sorry for questioning you.
Aw. I know you worked hard to make a small dig at me. It didn't work. How long did it take you to think that up? hours?

I'm not worried about women btw.
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Old 12-08-2012, 03:03 PM
 
Location: Central California
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So, which are you? Unattractive chick or wimpy guy?
I'm whichever tickles your fancy the most.
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Old 12-08-2012, 03:04 PM
 
Location: Central California
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Aw. I know you worked hard to make a small dig at me. It didn't work. How long did it take you to think that up? hours?

I'm not worried about women btw.
Not worried until the next thread where you whine incessantly.

It's cool, bro. I love you for you.
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Old 12-08-2012, 03:07 PM
 
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Not worried until the next thread where you whine incessantly.

It's cool, bro. I love you for you.
Oh I'm sure you will be waiting. It'll be a loooong time little one.
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Old 12-08-2012, 03:07 PM
 
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Just because you're married doesn't mean that you don't hate men or are not hideous.

That just means that you had ONE guy that liked you. For all we know, you could treat him like crap. We only have your word to go by.
2nd marriage actually. So 2 guys liked me

What can I say, I have always been popular with the boys. It always helped that I was petite and looked like Linda Ronstadt.

And treating my men like crap is not my style. They get treated very well indeed. My hubby is positively spoiled.
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Old 12-08-2012, 03:16 PM
 
Location: Central California
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2nd marriage actually. So 2 guys liked me

What can I say, I have always been popular with the boys. It always helped that I was petite and looked like Linda Ronstadt.

And treating my men like crap is not my style. They get treated very well indeed. My hubby is positively spoiled.
3 now.

I'm sorry. I just can't resist your charm anymore.
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Old 12-08-2012, 03:20 PM
 
Location: Bangkok, NYC, and LV
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2nd marriage actually. So 2 guys liked me

What can I say, I have always been popular with the boys. It always helped that I was petite and looked like Linda Ronstadt.

And treating my men like crap is not my style. They get treated very well indeed. My hubby is positively spoiled.
So why did it take you until 40 to get wifed up if you were hot and amicable?

I think you need to be honest with yourself about yourself.

Do you rub your man's feet? Now that's spoiling.
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Old 12-08-2012, 03:40 PM
 
Location: Chicago
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In terms of the actual "picking up process yes",

but seriously, it would thinking outside thinking outside the box yes, to be "hmm . . . bringing flowers on the first date doesn't seem to be working? Am I coming on too strong? is she not into me?" But bringing flowers on a first date does seem like the right thing to do, but after awhile a guy has to try something else.

Maybe what I meant to say, is that maybe the PUA movement might simply trigger guys simply to think differently, even if the PUA movement itself may be a money making scheme, with specific pieces of advice that may not be the best.
I'll repeat something I've said before. The main problem with PUA is that it views male/female relationships as a predator/prey interaction. In PUA thinking, women are goods for men to seize and enjoy, not human beings to relate to as equals. Even if some PUA tactics can help some men make initial contact, the rest of PUA undermines the possibility of establishing connections that are not exploitative, if not downright abusive.
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Old 12-08-2012, 03:42 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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Just because you're married doesn't mean that you don't hate men or are not hideous.. We only have your word to go by.
ROFL!! You guys are killing me on the forum today, LOLOL! Yeah, Djuna's hubby married her because she's hideous! He's a glutton for punishment, lololol!
I don't know why so many posts are tickling my funnybone today....lol!
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