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Old 12-14-2012, 02:37 PM
 
Location: Between Heaven And Hell.
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I just hung around, one turned up.

Let them come to you.
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Old 12-14-2012, 02:38 PM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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Many of the people I know met in school. That's not on your list.

I also don't have a problem with meeting at work (I've dated coworkers and know several people who dated or married coworkers), at a bar or club, or most places, actually.
I met my husband at work. I also met my boyfriend before him at work. Of course, my work is a bit different than most people's work.
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Old 12-14-2012, 02:38 PM
 
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Many of the people I know met in school. That's not on your list.

True, unfortunately I'm not in school anymore and I imagine neither are most of the people here


School and friends are the only 2 situations where meeting somebody is not completely atrocious
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Old 12-14-2012, 02:40 PM
 
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Let them come to you.

Are you trolling?
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Old 12-14-2012, 02:41 PM
 
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Are you trolling?
What do you mean by that?
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Old 12-14-2012, 02:42 PM
 
Location: The Hall of Justice
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True, unfortunately I'm not in school anymore and I imagine neither are most of the people here
My husband is pushing 40 and went back to school. He has a cute study partner in math too.

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School and friends are the only 2 situations where meeting somebody is not completely atrocious
Church
Social clubs
Volunteering (several pretty young women volunteer at the local food pantry with me)
Sports clubs

I get the feeling you just want to shoot down anything positive someone says, though.
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Old 12-14-2012, 02:43 PM
 
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What do you mean by that?

Your advice is ridiculous. Women don't approach so what does "let them come to you mean"?
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Old 12-14-2012, 02:44 PM
 
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Those coworkers I dated? I asked them out.
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Old 12-14-2012, 02:45 PM
 
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Your advice is ridiculous. Women don't approach so what does "let them come to you mean"?
They don't?
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Old 12-14-2012, 02:45 PM
 
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My husband is pushing 40 and went back to school. He has a cute study partner in math too.

I'm trying to set myself up financially for the future and I already have a degree anyways, I can't waste time going back to school


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Church
Religion is a complete fraud

Not a bad choice for those who believe in that fraud however


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Social clubs
Volunteering (several pretty young women volunteer at the local food pantry with me)
Sports clubs
These aren't bad choices but nothing I really have the energy and desire for

It's a pretty incredible world where men have to do something they have no interest in just to meet somebody...yet any woman can walk 5 feet outside of her house and find a date in seconds
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