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In my mid twenties. Just don't say I should be more mature, please, I already know it but can't just tell myself to be more emotionally mature, it doesn't work like that.
If you listen to the people here, you should be able to live your entire life in complete isolation by yourself and feel perfectly content. This is all nonsense of course, we're social creatures and we need companionship to be mentally healthy. As long as you're not making a man your entire life, I don't see what the issue is
With that being said, what's the problem? Why can't you find a man?
You're in your mid 20s, the world is your oyster - you can date men of any age, what's stopping you?
Wanting to be in a relationship so badly that you get pregnant by a guy just so you can keep him around doesn't seem like a particularly smart course of action.
Have you read up on Emotional IQ? Might give you some food for thought.
With that said, I have several lady friends who are in their 60's and cannot live without a man, they are now old and needy, finding a man is all they think and talk about, it is an obsession with them, they are very one dimensional, very frustrated and unhappy. I feel sorry for them.
Sounds like you wont be lonely long OP with that new baby on the way.
So you read my previous post... yes, looks like it. Still, I will still be lonely, and you know that. There are different kinds of loneliness, different needs to be fulfilled.
1) Are you pretty? (Do people tell you you're pretty?)
2) How old are you?
3) Where do you live?
4) Roughly, how many guys approach you per month?
The answers to those question will determine my advice to you.
Seriously?
Well, nevermind, here you go:
1. I guess there's nothing wrong with my looks, yes, I do hear every now and then from people that I'm pretty.
2. I'm in my mid 20.
3. London
4. The problem is that I'm spending most of my time at uni at work so there's not really much time and ocassions to meet new guys.
Lonliness is a perfectly normal human emotion. As much as this society would like everyone to be a self-sufficient island it simply isn't so. People NEED other people! When you aren't getting regular quality time with people you start to feel an emotional hunger that is akin to a feeling of you haven't eaten in days. When people feel hungry for a long while they start to feel desperate. This also applies to romantic relationships. A person can have many friends but if there is no special SO then the hunger begins.
Just as some people have a hard time feeding their physical hunger, some of us have a hard time feeding our emotional hunger.
Sure you can "keep busy" and that might help take your mind off of it but it's always there nagging at you.
So you read my previous post... yes, looks like it. Still, I will still be lonely, and you know that. There are different kinds of loneliness, different needs to be fulfilled.
No, I didn't mean it in a bad way. Just that at least you've got someone you can always be with soon and that's something to look forward to.
Wanting to be in a relationship so badly that you get pregnant by a guy just so you can keep him around doesn't seem like a particularly smart course of action.
Now you are just jumping into conclusions without knowing all the facts. I have no idea why you are attacking me, I want to be in a happy relationship but I din't get pregnant to keep hi. In fact, I don't want to have kids and we were both involved in it, it's not that I got pregnant without him taking any part in it.
You're very quick at judging people and you know what they say... if you're afraid that others may cheat on you it's because you are they one who cheats... I think it's true about judging people like you do, even without knowing the facts.
No, I didn't mean it in a bad way. Just that at least you've got someone you can always be with soon and that's something to look forward to.
But how having a child without a father would be a good thing for that lil' person? And it's not confirmed yet,I still hope it's not real.
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