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Old 12-19-2012, 10:49 AM
 
Location: Phoenix, AZ
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You frequently display in threads here, this mindset that I know most women would find disturbing, if not frightening...and most certainly to be avoided.

It's that whole "I have lots of rules, and people had best follow them or I will retailiate and they will suffer!!" Maybe there's a nice guy underneath of all that who has just had a rough time in life, and is fed up. But...most chicks will get this vibe and think, "potential serial killer."

Man I'm just saying, I guess, you might have better results in anything involving other human beings if you ease up and relax, forgive people for not doing what you think they should all the time. The examples you give aren't that severe in anyone else's opinion, and I sure deal with people far more stupid and irritating than this like...every day. Without exacting punishment on any of them for it.
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Old 12-19-2012, 10:51 AM
 
Location: Westminster, CO
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You frequently display in threads here, this mindset that I know most women would find disturbing, if not frightening...and most certainly to be avoided.

It's that whole "I have lots of rules, and people had best follow them or I will retailiate and they will suffer!!" Maybe there's a nice guy underneath of all that who has just had a rough time in life, and is fed up. But...most chicks will get this vibe and think, "potential serial killer."

Man I'm just saying, I guess, you might have better results in anything involving other human beings if you ease up and relax, forgive people for not doing what you think they should all the time. The examples you give aren't that severe in anyone else's opinion, and I sure deal with people far more stupid and irritating than this like...every day. Without exacting punishment on any of them for it.
Can't rep you but wish I could!
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Old 12-19-2012, 10:55 AM
 
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My profile was geared to safe adult fun and this lady responded who really didn't look like she would be into that type of fun. So I made sure I asked her......"DID YOU READ MY PROFILE? I never got a clear answer and then I asked again when she asked do I want to take offline and exchange emails.........."DID YOU READ MY PROFILE?

Finally she read it and send me a email saying......."I don't think we are on the same page"


Of I had to get nasty in the email because she wasted my time by not reading my profile. I;m sure the females on this board who have a profile online go through this all the time.
It's so hard being you.
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Old 12-19-2012, 11:14 AM
 
Location: St Thomas, US Virgin Islands
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Sonic, these same discussions have been going on ever since the OP first started his CD marathon several years ago. Nothing changes, all is but repetition of threads and posts. The bravado which comes out in posted comments such as, "I told her her this or that" and "I gave her a piece of my mind", etc. are all just a bunch of fluffed up feathers such as an insignificant banty rooster displays, and should be taken with a huge block of salt. Like Popeye, he yis what he yis. Nothing anybody says is going to change him but I do think it's remiss to ascribe to him any sort of underlying criminal pathology in the making. As poster JazzyTallGuy commented, "It's so hard being you." A sentiment which many of us share ...
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Old 12-19-2012, 12:43 PM
 
Location: Phoenix, AZ
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Sonic, these same discussions have been going on ever since the OP first started his CD marathon several years ago. Nothing changes, all is but repetition of threads and posts. The bravado which comes out in posted comments such as, "I told her her this or that" and "I gave her a piece of my mind", etc. are all just a bunch of fluffed up feathers such as an insignificant banty rooster displays, and should be taken with a huge block of salt. Like Popeye, he yis what he yis. Nothing anybody says is going to change him but I do think it's remiss to ascribe to him any sort of underlying criminal pathology in the making. As poster JazzyTallGuy commented, "It's so hard being you." A sentiment which many of us share ...
Aye, and lest anyone get me too wrong with that, I wasn't really suggesting that he in fact was dangerous, merely that some women might think so. Basically I don't think it's a great attitude to have if one is trying to find dates, partners, playmates or whatever. Maybe not the healthiest attitude toward society in general. Sounds like it might lead to high blood pressure, at the least.

I dunno man, life is too short to spend it being upset if it can be avoided. But that's just me.
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Old 12-19-2012, 01:47 PM
 
Location: The #1 sunshine state, Arizona.
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Aye, and lest anyone get me too wrong with that, I wasn't really suggesting that he in fact was dangerous, merely that some women might think so. Basically I don't think it's a great attitude to have if one is trying to find dates, partners, playmates or whatever. Maybe not the healthiest attitude toward society in general. Sounds like it might lead to high blood pressure, at the least.

I dunno man, life is too short to spend it being upset if it can be avoided. But that's just me.
He is afraid if he lets down his guard or takes a relaxed stance, women or "girls" as he likes to call them, will take advantage of him. He isn't too trusting of people in general, and acts as if everyone were out to get him.
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Old 12-19-2012, 02:03 PM
 
Location: On the Chesapeake
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He is afraid if he lets down his guard or takes a relaxed stance, women or "girls" as he likes to call them, will take advantage of him. He isn't too trusting of people in general, and acts as if everyone were out to get him.
You forgot "females".


Dammit I did it again. I participated in a TVSG thread. DAMMIT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Old 12-19-2012, 02:11 PM
 
Location: St Thomas, US Virgin Islands
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Basically I don't think it's a great attitude to have if one is trying to find dates, partners, playmates or whatever.
True. It's a very rare occasion that he gets beyond a first date and even first ones are few and far between. Not that that's ever his fault, they're all just so, well, "lacking" in so many respects. His Rule Book is voluminous and long ago surpassed War and Peace in sheer volume.

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He is afraid if he lets down his guard or takes a relaxed stance, women or "girls" as he likes to call them, will take advantage of him. He isn't too trusting of people in general, and acts as if everyone were out to get him.
I think "females" is more often used as the alternative to "women", with "girls" as the runner-up.
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Old 12-19-2012, 06:38 PM
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Location: Tall Building down by the river
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You frequently display in threads here, this mindset that I know most women would find disturbing, if not frightening...and most certainly to be avoided.

It's that whole "I have lots of rules, and people had best follow them or I will retailiate and they will suffer!!" Maybe there's a nice guy underneath of all that who has just had a rough time in life, and is fed up. But...most chicks will get this vibe and think, "potential serial killer."

Man I'm just saying, I guess, you might have better results in anything involving other human beings if you ease up and relax, forgive people for not doing what you think they should all the time. The examples you give aren't that severe in anyone else's opinion, and I sure deal with people far more stupid and irritating than this like...every day. Without exacting punishment on any of them for it.

I take the fetish lifestyle very seriously so I do get mad if a woman replies to me and ignores what I wrote just because they liked the picture

I don't like to play around when it comes to fetish activity because it's one of my passions
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Old 12-19-2012, 06:40 PM
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Location: Tall Building down by the river
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He is afraid if he lets down his guard or takes a relaxed stance, women or "girls" as he likes to call them, will take advantage of him. He isn't too trusting of people in general, and acts as if everyone were out to get him.

That is true, I don't believe anything a woman says in 2012
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