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Just carry on a simple conversation. You don't have to hardcore hit on the chick. Tell her she looks nice or something like that. Just be real and stop being afraid of rejection.
Yeah maybe I am over thinking it. I do need to stop being afraid, you are right about that.
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Originally Posted by CaptainJack87
Anything is better than nothing.
Aarrghh, me thinks the cap'n be right on this one! haha
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Originally Posted by usamathman
Just go for it. Chances are you will never see her again. Life is too short too let fear of rejection or procrastination get in the way. Worst thing that could happen is she turns you down. End of story.
GO FOR WHAT YOU WANT.
That is so true. Even if she would have ignored me, the chances of me seeing her again are slim to none. Thanks for the advice guys!
If I was in that situation I would've commented on something the guy was looking at and based on his reaction I would take the conversation from there.
If I was in that situation I would've commented on something the guy was looking at and based on his reaction I would take the conversation from there.
Oh, it would help if the women would make it easier lol
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Originally Posted by Philosophizer
Tell her that you've got something in your pocket for her...
And then get down on one knee and pull out a ring pop.
I might use that haha
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Originally Posted by tazzled
This sort of happened to me once.
Guy: I have a harmonica in my pocket
Me: Yeah right.
Guy: (pulls out harmonica)
Me: Why?
He is known as "Harmonica" amongst my friends and I.
Usually a guy will ask if you know where something is, but not anything like, "Do you know where the hemorrhoid cream is?"
You could say, "Excuse me; do you know where I could find orange juice (or whatever you think of.)"
It would be better if she had to SHOW you where it is. Then you can ask if she shops there often etc. It's cheesy, but what else are you going to talk about? It's Wal-Mart.
I think we need to do a HIMYM style "challenge accepted" thread. One of the single dudes should ask a hot girl where the hemorrhoid cream is and see if he can turn it into a number/date.
You could say, "Excuse me; do you know where I could find orange juice (or whatever you think of.)"
It would be better if she had to SHOW you where it is. Then you can ask if she shops there often etc. It's cheesy, but what else are you going to talk about? It's Wal-Mart.
This. The other possibility might be to get in line behind her at the cashier's, and start up a convo there. But if she doesn't make eye contact or smile and get friendly when you open your conversation, let it drop.
This. The other possibility might be to get in line behind her at the cashier's, and start up a convo there. But if she doesn't make eye contact or smile and get friendly when you open your conversation, let it drop.
That would make me feel awkward which I hate, but I will try...
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Originally Posted by tazzled
No, it was on the street one night, outside of a bar.
doesnt that come off as creepy?
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