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There's a guy Im crushing on from work. Lets call him A. I gave A my number a few weeks back and he texts me here and there but he never really asked me out. So I figured he wasn't interested. Alot of people here suggested to ask him out but my proud self couldnt do it. Yesterday, I got a text from A. He says, " Do you want to check out Zero dark thirty this week? Are you into that? ". I haven't replied to A because I don't know what to tell him. I'm confuse because there's another guy who I also like. Lets call him B. B asked me to be his girlfriend a couple days ago. But B is away for work and won't be back till March.
I like A and B. I haven't gone out on any dates with A so I can't tell if we're gonna click. B and I have gone out 3 times already, no sex. Base on our interactions at work, A and I may hit it off. We don't work together but we see each other at work. Some people from work have told me that A has a crush on me because they catch him looking at me alot.
B has been asking me about my decision if I would agree to be his girlfriend. I told him that I need more time but I know I have to tell him soon. So far B has been great. He texts me in the morning when he wakes up and texts me during the day when he's not busy. At night, he calls to check how my day was before he goes to sleep.He calls when he said he would. He promised he would be a great boyfriend.
They are both educated. A is a nurse and B is an engineer who works as a consultant. B travels alot for work. They're both physically fit. A does jiu jiutsu and B Muay Thai. B is buff ( like really bluff) A is more like an average size but toned. B is taller than A. Personality, they're both great. They're both family oriented but B I think is ready for something more serious ( marriage, kids). B and I has the same ethnic background. A and I is different. There's alot of things that B and I both like. Even our astrological signs match perfectly . B is more stable than A. He has a house while A rents.
I need to make a decision so I can tell these dudes what I'm thinking. I don't want to mislead A if I'm gonna go with B, so I rather decline his invitation saying I already have a bf and he's too late. If I pick A, I'm not sure if its gonna lead to something more than hanging out and I may loose an opportunity to be with a great guy (B). But I like A. I like B too. I'm really confuse .
Last edited by YellowT; 01-11-2013 at 08:36 PM..
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b sounds like a catch, so my question is why is this even a question?
what is appealing about a? because it seems your desires lay with him more...
maybe because he's not as available, and you're not ready for anything serious either?
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Sorry reading these sort of posts make my head hurt. I'll say the cliched thing and say 'go with your heart.'
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. B is more stable than A. He has a house while A rents. 
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