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Old 01-14-2013, 06:25 PM
 
Location: Up in the air
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I've heard people say that and I'm never sure what it means. Do you just not flirt or ask guys out, or do you turn down guys who flirt with you and ask you out?
Well, guys generally don't flirt or ask me out, so that's a non-issue.

I'm not going to be going out of my way to find a date or flirt, though. No approaching, no asking out, no drink buying etc.
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Old 01-14-2013, 06:28 PM
 
Location: Philadelphia, PA
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Well, guys generally don't flirt or ask me out, so that's a non-issue.

I'm not going to be going out of my way to find a date or flirt, though. No approaching, no asking out, no drink buying etc.
If i'm ever in Boston, i'll flirt with you or ask you out
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Old 01-14-2013, 06:29 PM
 
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Well, guys generally don't flirt or ask me out, so that's a non-issue.

I'm not going to be going out of my way to find a date or flirt, though. No approaching, no asking out, no drink buying etc.
But if the potential love of your life came to you, you wouldn't reject him? Because I'm pretty much the same, except I get flirty when my path crosses someone I find attractive.
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Old 01-14-2013, 06:55 PM
 
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But if the potential love of your life came to you, you wouldn't reject him? Because I'm pretty much the same, except I get flirty when my path crosses someone I find attractive.
I don't believe in 'loves of your life', so that's a moot point for me. If a decent man came up to me, chatted me up and seemed sincere I may become his friend and see if something else is possible but I'm not really interested in dating right off the bat.
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Old 01-14-2013, 08:02 PM
 
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I agree. Nothing worse than being tied down to a girl that's homely and huge. My family would shame me if I brought one home.


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Am I wrong for this? Seems like in my dating life, women I'm attracted to, who I think are attractive end up being no good for me. However women who I dont find attractive seems to want to do everything for me. Like they have a lot of qualities they like, but I can't get over how ugly they are. I've decided that apparently the right person for me is a woman I'm not attracted to. But I feel if I dealt with a woman who is ugly, I'd be settling for what I dint want. I realize that this means a lifetime of loneliness possibly, but I'm going to stand my ground on this one.
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Old 01-14-2013, 08:21 PM
 
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I agree. Nothing worse than being tied down to a girl that's homely and huge. My family would shame me if I brought one home.
And my family would be happy that I found someone to love and who loves me back.

I guess that's the difference between our upbringing.
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Old 01-14-2013, 08:47 PM
 
Location: Albuquerque, NM
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I may become his friend and see if something else is possible but I'm not really interested in dating right off the bat.
How's that different than dating?


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I agree. Nothing worse than being tied down to a girl that's homely and huge. My family would shame me if I brought one home.
Your family sounds like a collection of jackasses. Sorry that's the people that raised you
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Old 01-14-2013, 09:00 PM
 
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How's that different than dating?
Dating to me is going out one-on-one with a person to see if there is a possibility of a romance/relationship forming. Hanging out is what I do with my friends when we've had a bad week and want a beer. I'm not interested in them romantically. If you want to just hang out as friends, then that's what we'll be.
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Old 01-14-2013, 09:30 PM
 
Location: Central California
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If i'm ever in Boston, i'll flirt with you or ask you out
hahahahaha

Look at this guy, Mr. GQ Smooth over here.
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Old 01-14-2013, 10:23 PM
 
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And the marriage probably wouldn't have worked out, and it's the wife who would have gotten the raw end of the deal, with no divorce options. Let's not forget that part about the "different times".
Really? The marriage would have worked out just fine, just like most did.
Are you saying that only marriages that included beautiful wives worked out in the past?
What a bunch of BS.
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