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Old 01-12-2013, 08:04 PM
 
Location: The western periphery of Terra Australis
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Well it's more a rhetorical question. I mean, I know the 'answers.' People like to get drunk and they like to have sex, it's simple, but my real question is why does so much sex seem to have when the two people are inebriated? I've never had drunk sex, but I imagine it'd be less fun...and often people can't remember what happened the night after...Isn't that sort of effed up? I mean anything could have happened and you don't remember it, you can't take account of your actions. And then you have women getting pregnant etc...

I don't want to sound superior but it makes me lose respect for people like that because they have little self-respect. I understand people occasionally get drunk, but to habitually binge drink and then lose control and just do anything is plain irresponsible.

I think this applies mainly to random sex hook-ups. It shows we're too socially awkward to relate without alcohol. If you wanna have random sex, why the need for alcohol? I get it takes away inhibitions, it's not like I don't drink at all, but to get blinding drunk? I dunno, I guess I get it but I think it's stupid but on another level I don't get it.
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Old 01-12-2013, 08:09 PM
 
Location: Atlanta & NYC
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I personally think the idea of getting drunk and banging some random chick is really odd.
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Old 01-12-2013, 08:09 PM
 
Location: North of 60
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Because it's awesome...

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Old 01-12-2013, 08:09 PM
 
Location: H-Tine, Texas
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I couldn't tell ya.
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Old 01-12-2013, 08:09 PM
 
Location: Albuquerque, NM
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It's an excuse

Since our society is so anti-sex, we need excuses to engage in it.

"I was drunk, so I could't keep myself from engaging in that dirty, though perfectly natural, deed".
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Old 01-12-2013, 08:10 PM
 
Location: Atlanta & NYC
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It's an excuse

Since our society is so anti-sex, we need excuses to engage in it.

"I was drunk, so I could't keep myself from engaging in that dirty, though perfectly natural, deed".
Now that is the damn truth!
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Old 01-12-2013, 08:12 PM
 
Location: Chicago
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Alcohol lowers inhibitions. It's not complicated. But thanks anyway for the lecture, Mother Cabrini.
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Old 01-12-2013, 08:14 PM
 
Location: Texas
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alcohol lowers inhibitions. It's not complicated. But thanks anyway for the lecture, mother cabrini.

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Old 01-12-2013, 08:16 PM
 
Location: Bronx
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Well it's more a rhetorical question. I mean, I know the 'answers.' People like to get drunk and they like to have sex, it's simple, but my real question is why does so much sex seem to have when the two people are inebriated? I've never had drunk sex, but I imagine it'd be less fun...and often people can't remember what happened the night after...Isn't that sort of effed up? I mean anything could have happened and you don't remember it, you can't take account of your actions. And then you have women getting pregnant etc...

I don't want to sound superior but it makes me lose respect for people like that because they have little self-respect. I understand people occasionally get drunk, but to habitually binge drink and then lose control and just do anything is plain irresponsible.

I think this applies mainly to random sex hook-ups. It shows we're too socially awkward to relate without alcohol. If you wanna have random sex, why the need for alcohol? I get it takes away inhibitions, it's not like I don't drink at all, but to get blinding drunk? I dunno, I guess I get it but I think it's stupid but on another level I don't get it.
ONe thing is that it eleminates emotional attachment after sex with most women, thats the only benefit of drunk sex and other forms of sex while under the influence. But I have to admit when drinking or under the influence of certain drugs, people are more open a bit more and less and less reserved. You see guys, she will give you your number, but 75% chance she wont hit you up back, its best to seal the deal of sex right then and there.
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Old 01-12-2013, 08:18 PM
 
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Well it's more a rhetorical question. I mean, I know the 'answers.' People like to get drunk and they like to have sex, it's simple, but my real question is why does so much sex seem to have when the two people are inebriated? I've never had drunk sex, but I imagine it'd be less fun...and often people can't remember what happened the night after...Isn't that sort of effed up? I mean anything could have happened and you don't remember it, you can't take account of your actions. And then you have women getting pregnant etc...

I don't want to sound superior but it makes me lose respect for people like that because they have little self-respect. I understand people occasionally get drunk, but to habitually binge drink and then lose control and just do anything is plain irresponsible.

I think this applies mainly to random sex hook-ups. It shows we're too socially awkward to relate without alcohol. If you wanna have random sex, why the need for alcohol? I get it takes away inhibitions, it's not like I don't drink at all, but to get blinding drunk? I dunno, I guess I get it but I think it's stupid but on another level I don't get it.
It relieves people from feeling accountable for their actions.
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