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I've been seeing this 42 year old lady recently. We've had sex several times and I enjoy her company quite a bit (and she's good in the bedroom).
Anyways, she's out of town this week and I'm starting to miss her like crazy. I couldn't stop thinking about her last night and can't wait to see her on Tuesday (we're going out to dinner). I am even masturbating fantasizing about her. WTF
What the hell is wrong with me? Why am I starting to get so attached to somebody where I know there is no real chance of anything long term happening?
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Originally Posted by Philosophizer
You're a fairy boy that has never had sex with anyone until she came along (if she even exists to begin with).
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Originally Posted by brahmabull117
what's a fairy boy? I was not a virgin before she came along
The challenge of separating feelings with sex when something like this goes on. You have been sitting nights trying to deny what you feel, because you never expected this to happen. Is there any chance of something coming from this? What's the 411 here?
We just really like each other and get along very well...both of us love having sex with each other. She can't wait to see me on Tuesday
The issue is there's just no way anything long term could ever happen and I don't want to develop real feelings here
Huh? I bang her at her house. Why would I need to creep in and out of my house? My family doesn't care what I do
I just don't tell anybody in family that I'm seeing somebody who is 18 or 19 years older because it's not like I'm going to marry her
So you have never told your family about anyone you have dated or shown interest in? No wonder they think you are gay. I still don't see why you can't be honest about your life with your loved ones. That seems so childish when they could be a good source of support and advice. Especially since you say they do not care what you do, and won't judge you.
But I have to ask...are her kids there when you are "banging" her?
So you have never told your family about anyone you have dated or shown interest in? No wonder they think you are gay. I still don't see why you can't be honest about your life with your loved ones. That seems so childish when they could be a good source of support and advice. Especially since you say they do not care what you do, and won't judge you.
I don't tell me family about somebody who is a FWB situation. I come from a relatively conservative family
What am I going to say? "Hi mom, I picked up this woman at a bar a few weeks ago and we've been having sex on the regular ever since"?
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But I have to ask...are her kids there when you are "banging" her?
Her kids live with her ex husband because her husband lives in a much better school area
I don't tell me family about somebody who is a FWB situation. I come from a relatively conservative family
What am I going to say? "Hi mom, I picked up this woman at a bar a few weeks ago and we've been having sex on the regular ever since"?
OK, so you have to lie and sneak around. We get that. But this isn't really a FWB situation because you both have feelings for each other. It is a blossoming relationship. Nothing to feel shame over. They don't all need to lead to marriage. Most don't.
If you are developing feelings for her that you know won't be going anywhere then the right thing to do is stop seeing her. You are only going to get hurt in the end. The key to FWB is not getting emotionally attached.
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