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How do you know there is no real chance of anything long term happening? Maybe she feels the same way about you. Are you uncomfortable with the age gap you two have? If you enjoy her company "quite a bit", then that means you're attracted to her personality and her intellect. That - in conjunction with the sexual chemistry you two obviously share for each other - mark the beginnings of a potential relationship! Take things slow and see where it goes. It's one thing to try something and have it not work out for whatever reason...but it's another thing to not try something and then never know if it would've worked out...
I know it's not going to work out in the long term because I will want a family around 27-35 and there's no way I can do that with somebody who is in her late 40s/50s. I don't want to inherit somebody else's family
That's a long way away though. For now, we're just taking it day by day. I'm going to see her 3 or 4 times next week
How do you know there is no real chance of anything long term happening? Maybe she feels the same way about you. Are you uncomfortable with the age gap you two have? If you enjoy her company "quite a bit", then that means you're attracted to her personality and her intellect. That - in conjunction with the sexual chemistry you two obviously share for each other - mark the beginnings of a potential relationship! Take things slow and see where it goes. It's one thing to try something and have it not work out for whatever reason...but it's another thing to not try something and then never know if it would've worked out...
You are right apotamkin and he should give her a chance but the bull wasn't ready for this one and this cougar is tearing him up!
I know it's not going to work out in the long term because I will want a family around 27-35 and there's no way I can do that with somebody who is in her late 40s/50s. I don't want to inherit somebody else's family
That's a long way away though. For now, we're just taking it day by day. I'm going to see her 3 or 4 times next week
Oh I see. Well, that changes things a bit, eh? Then just enjoy each others company for as long as it lasts. That's really all you can do at this point. Just be sure to be on the level with her and share this information with her (if you haven't already) so she knows what your future plans are and that they won't ever include her.
I've been seeing this 42 year old lady recently. We've had sex several times and I enjoy her company quite a bit (and she's good in the bedroom).
Anyways, she's out of town this week and I'm starting to miss her like crazy. I couldn't stop thinking about her last night and can't wait to see her on Tuesday (we're going out to dinner). I am even masturbating fantasizing about her. WTF
What the hell is wrong with me? Why am I starting to get so attached to somebody where I know there is no real chance of anything long term happening?
If you have to ask!!!
It appears you have a relationship with this woman but it seems to be one sided, hence the reason the phrase "Friends With Benefits" is quite misleading and not an actual reality since someone (YOU) usually gets attached (YOU) and ends up getting hurt (YOU).
Oh I see. Well, that changes things a bit, eh? Then just enjoy each others company for as long as it lasts. That's really all you can do at this point. Just be sure to be on the level with her and share this information with her (if you haven't already) so she knows what your future plans are and that they won't ever include her.
She's a smart woman. I'm sure she knows I'll want a family in the future
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Originally Posted by CSD610
If you have to ask!!!
It appears you have a relationship with this woman but it seems to be one sided, hence the reason the phrase "Friends With Benefits" is quite misleading and not an actual reality since someone (YOU) usually gets attached (YOU) and ends up getting hurt (YOU).
This is not one sided, she likes me as much or more than I like her
I fail to see why this would be any of the family's business anyway.
^^^^^ this
Unless I'm marrying her, it's none of their business really
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