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Ok I'll admit that I got in a relationship knowing that my guy has a few *ahem* issues. But I'm starting to see that It's not him but his ex who is making him go crazy inside.
My guy told me that he still had little feelings for his ex when we got together 4 months ago. No one in my family knows we are dating cause well things would he a little complicated. Anyway his ex is friends with my aunt and my aunt works with my guy. Sometimes my aunt will relay little messages to my guy about his ex girl. ( how she's doing, if she asked about him, etc) and then he would call her.
Now my boyfriend tells me that he wants me. He has moved from his ex side of town closer to me and these past two weeks have been wonderful. At his job my bf tells my aunt that he's done with the ex and he's moved on. She tells him his ex doesn't care anymore anyway.
Today my boyfriend ex shows up to his job talking about how can he move on without her. I know this because I call my aunt to get info on how her good old friend is doing. Tonight my bf is all moody and he says how do you completely let someone go and some bull like that.
This is all his ex fault!!! The ***** can't stand that he's happy with someone else.
I am so ready to bust a cap in her punk loose ***** ass! She is ruining my happiness.
I can't stand her. Ugh
Had you ever had an ex influence your current relationship? How did it work out?
But you said it yourself, he told you from the start that he still had feelings for his ex. If he didn't have feelings for her, there is nothing she could say or do to affect your relationship. Your anger is misplaced.
But you said it yourself, he told you from the start that he still had feelings for his ex. If he didn't have feelings for her, there is nothing she could say or do to affect your relationship. Your anger is misplaced.
I don't think so. She pushes him away, he moves on, then she comes back.
She is playing games. I have real feelings for him. Now it feels like she's playing with me
I don't think so. She pushes him away, he moves on, then she comes back.
She is playing games. I have real feelings for him. Now it feels like she's playing with me
So what you are saying is, your man is so weak he's being run roughshod by an ex girlfriend? You either are incredibly naive, or you need better taste in men.
So what you are saying is, your man is so weak he's being run roughshod by an ex girlfriend? You either are incredibly naive, or you need better taste in men.
No. I'm saying I'm in love with a man who is trying to start over with me, but has a crazy ass ex who is not over him.
OP, it is very tempting to blame the 'other woman' when your real problem is your boyfriend.
if he is a good loyal honest man, he can be chased after by his ex all day, he won't be interested. Believe me, no women are that desperate or consistent without man's encouragement.
Even if you put her in her place, she will keep on chasing after him if she feels she actually has a chance with him. He has to put an end to the "relationship" between him and the ex.
OP, it is very tempting to blame the 'other woman' when your real problem is your boyfriend.
if he is a good loyal honest man, he can be chased after by his ex all day, he won't be interested. Believe me, no women are that desperate or consistent without man's encouragement.
Even if you put her in her place, she will keep on chasing after him if she feels she actually has a chance with him. He has to put an end to the "relationship" between him and the ex.
Ugh, yes this is true.
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