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if he's really seeking a relationship and wants to get intimate at some point??? Even though it's been a long while since I'm not a virgin (gave it away to my now ex bf 4-5 months into the relationship), I still withhold the same mentality as when I was.
IMO 2-4 dates would be too early for me (even 1 month or 2 is early too) and I don't function like Hollywood movies where they both get intimate within a very short time. In addition, I would like it to start of as friendship and slowly move on towards relationship status but it's like nowadays those types are hard to find.
Nope, I never believed in waiting till marriage (that extreme in a man would turn me off as well too) but neither I'm I the ''Ok, I'm ready and it's been only 2 weeks since we met'' type. I'm kinda slow in that area but hopefully I'm find the man that will go at my pace too.
But generally speaking, if you guys into the woman and definitely finds her attractive as well as liking her personality (but she refuses to put out quickly) how long can you wait? I expect months... that's just me.
I could probably wait up to 3 months for someone I think is truly extraordinary. If she's as in to me as I'd have to be in to her, it wouldn't be any longer and would probably be less. After 3 months, I'm going to assume she's not into me, and move on no matter what, because we're certainly not as good a match despite any earlier indications.
When you and him are ready. If you really are into the guy the intensity will get to you.
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