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Old 02-08-2013, 08:57 AM
 
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Have you ever been hit on when your kid is with you?

I was at the grocery store, and saw this beautiful woman. We made eye contact, and I looked at her up and down, smiled, may have turned my head a little to see her butt. Then as she passes me, I see her son (maybe 10) giving me the stink eye as he passes me with the shopping cart.

We see each other again in the dairy and smile.

I couldn't think of a way to break that kind of ice, unless asking her son who is the hot lady he is with, and is she single.
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Old 02-08-2013, 09:01 AM
 
Location: Pa
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Chuckling. Look to make sure she is single.
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Old 02-08-2013, 09:03 AM
 
Location: NoVa
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Yes I have. So embarrassing. The young man was just a year or so older than my son who was 17 at the time.... =/
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Old 02-08-2013, 09:33 AM
 
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A bunch of times.
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Old 02-08-2013, 09:34 AM
 
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It's happened on occasion, the most recent being earlier this week (I made a thread on it- I was hit on by a teenage kid who thought I was younger than I actually am). Anyway, it can be a bit awkward, especially when I'm out with my son and we're doing something that typically isn't me putting myself in a position where I want to be hit on.
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Old 02-08-2013, 11:48 AM
 
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I haven't, but I'd imagine the key to that situation is to hit on her like you're not hitting on her. Subtly allude to her looks but keep the conversation benign and the flirting to a minimum out of respect for her child. I wouldn't even ask for a number but instead give her a card with mine, or my email.

Ha, obviously tough to pull off if you're normally awkward though.
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Old 02-08-2013, 11:57 AM
 
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The top 10 things men look for in a women do not include "make sure kid is not with her" or "make sure kid does not exist". In fact the top 5 are, Is she hot, Is she hot, Is she hot, Is she hot, and Is she hot.
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Old 02-08-2013, 12:00 PM
 
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The top 10 things men look for in a women do not include "make sure kid is not with her" or "make sure kid does not exist". In fact the top 5 are, Is she hot, Is she hot, Is she hot, Is she hot, and Is she hot.
Sometimes, though, it's obvious that the kid is with her and that the situation isn't ideal to be hitting on her.
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Old 02-08-2013, 12:15 PM
 
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The kid being with her didn't stop this dude. And it won't stop the next 20 either.

Hot is in very very short supply. And huge demand.
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Old 02-08-2013, 12:27 PM
 
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The men should just be prepared for rejection if the woman is focused on other things while with her kid and is not in the mood to be hit on.
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