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Old 03-13-2013, 09:35 PM
 
Location: Up in the air
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That woman you messaged online? Yeah. That one. The other 2,000 guys messaged her too.

Understand this concept and you will be well on your way to wisdom.

Somewhere around 90% of the guys are after about 10% of the women online. Those 10% are hot, and I will translate that for you. They aren't overweight, and they aren't over 50.

Either that or playboy, penthouse, and every strip club in the world got it wrong.
So, why don't guys go after the less than hot girls?

The top 30% or so instead of the top 10%? Hell, even the top 50 or 60% for most guys... your inflated egos aren't doing you a bit of good on dating websites.
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Old 03-13-2013, 09:42 PM
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Location: Tall Building down by the river
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Yes, most of them are on the free sites, they're usually easy to spot.

I found it amusing when I received "hi how r u?" messages from girls that complained about guys sending them short/lazy messages in their profiles.

Don't you know by now that men are supposed to overlook anything a woman does?
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Old 03-13-2013, 09:44 PM
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Location: Tall Building down by the river
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So, why don't guys go after the less than hot girls?

The top 30% or so instead of the top 10%? Hell, even the top 50 or 60% for most guys... your inflated egos aren't doing you a bit of good on dating websites.

I gave up on trying to get a 8 from scale of 1 to 10

So now my focus is on 7 and 7.5. A 8 would be considered a bonus now
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Old 03-13-2013, 09:46 PM
 
Location: Pa
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Yeah that's what someone said a few pages back. Saying that going out for a drink is a better chance of making out with her at the end of the night
Yeah I saw that.
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Old 03-13-2013, 09:46 PM
 
Location: Gotham
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I gave up on trying to get a 8 from scale of 1 to 10

So now my focus is on 7 and 7.5. A 8 would be considered a bonus now
I would love to know the difference between a 7 and an 8. Does the 8 mean she has bigger boobs?
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Old 03-13-2013, 09:52 PM
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I would love to know the difference between a 7 and an 8. Does the 8 mean she has bigger boobs?

it's a combination of face and personaliity.

for example,

One girl I spoke with last night has a 7 face and a 10 personality which makes her a 8

The other one has a 10 personality and her face is a 6 making her overall a 7
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Old 03-13-2013, 10:09 PM
 
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it's a combination of face and personaliity.

for example,

One girl I spoke with last night has a 7 face and a 10 personality which makes her a 8

The other one has a 10 personality and her face is a 6 making her overall a 7
K, but you are gonna spend a helluva lotta time looking at that face.

And eventually her personality is gonna stop speaking, and fall asleep (for instance)
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Old 03-13-2013, 10:12 PM
 
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So, why don't guys go after the less than hot girls?

The top 30% or so instead of the top 10%? Hell, even the top 50 or 60% for most guys... your inflated egos aren't doing you a bit of good on dating websites.
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Old 03-13-2013, 10:13 PM
 
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K, but you are gonna spend a helluva lotta time looking at that face.

And eventually her personality is gonna stop speaking, and fall asleep (for instance)
You've got it backwards. Eventually, the face will age, while the personality will remain true to its nature. Choose wisely.
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Old 03-13-2013, 10:28 PM
 
Location: New Haven, CT
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That woman you messaged online? Yeah. That one. The other 2,000 guys messaged her too.
post #1

If were talking about numbers here I think 6+ would be good. I avoid the number system though lol

I dont go out much anymore, once every 2 weeks or so but it varies. Usually to the same bar or two as well, so thats when I would be "in the market"..But my point is I can usually find some sort of attraction in most women when Im there. If we talk and theres a connection thats a huge plus for me.


So in numbers, if a 6er was talking to me, and we have a connection, that would make her an 8 or so.

Key words like: bored, drunk, black sabbath......Will seal the deal for me lol j/k
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