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Old 03-25-2013, 10:32 AM
 
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White women who are easy have no problem finding real relationships.

Not sleeping with men will not make them see any value in me. it wont make them respect me nor want to take me out and get to know the real me. they will just bypass me to sleep with someone else who will put out.

I know my appearance is preventing me from being relationship material. If I was Rihanna's coloring with slimmer features I'd probably be in a long term relationship right now. I'd have a guy who'd take me out on dates, take me to meet his family and everything else. but unfortunately I was born with darkskin and broad features which limits my dating options greatly.
I agree with you, but I think insecurity is the bigger problem. Insecure women who sleep around will have trouble keeping men, but secure women who do the same won't. Several men have admitted that it doesn't really matter to them if the woman sleeps with them on the first date even. If they like her, they will not care. An insecure woman can follow the 90 day no sex rule and that still won't make men fall for her. Regarding skin color, I definitely understand that it's harder for you to feel confident considering the Eurocentric standards of beauty that we are constantly bombarded with, but I do think you would be more successful in dating/relationships if you learned to love yourself and exuded more confidence.
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Old 03-25-2013, 10:58 AM
 
Location: Up above the world so high!
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just wanted to be different..

I started writing an actual answer and it just sounded conceited...so i opted for a little humor
I can appreciate that, lol.
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Old 03-25-2013, 11:06 AM
 
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I agree with you, but I think insecurity is the bigger problem. Insecure women who sleep around will have trouble keeping men, but secure women who do the same won't. Several men have admitted that it doesn't really matter to them if the woman sleeps with them on the first date even. If they like her, they will not care. An insecure woman can follow the 90 day no sex rule and that still won't make men fall for her. Regarding skin color, I definitely understand that it's harder for you to feel confident considering the Eurocentric standards of beauty that we are constantly bombarded with, but I do think you would be more successful in dating/relationships if you learned to love yourself and exuded more confidence.
Excellent point
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Old 03-25-2013, 11:06 AM
 
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Nothing, the same way nobody has anything to offer me besides trouble and a ruined life.
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Old 03-25-2013, 11:28 AM
 
Location: Reno, NV
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Me.

I can offer me, and all that is associated with me.

I will rarely be a good match for anyone, but some have found me to be worthwhile, and I have found some of them who fit me.
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Old 03-25-2013, 11:35 AM
 
Location: Florida
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1. No kids that I know about.
2. In shape.
3. No threat to Channing Tatum or Tom Brady, but decent looking.
4. Educated.
5. Reasonably successful.
6. Decent size package with no deformities or weird curvatures.
7. Very skilled at oral (giving and receiving).
8. Good in the sack (stamina, different positions, etc.)
9. Not hung up on any exes.
10. Not jealous or possessive in the least.
11. Self-confident.
12. Great sense of humor and not offended by much of anything.
13. Non drug user, non smoker, and light drinker.
14. Women love my ass, it isn't flat like most white dudes.
15. Well-read and up to speed on current events.
16. Great teeth and overall dental health.
17. No mental health issues (bipolar, OCD, etc.)
18. Parents and grandparents always love me.
19. Very well groomed down below (no set of weeds to forage through).
20. Athletic, can teach you any sport you want to learn.

Damn, this was a fun exercise in introspection. I'm a better catch than even I realized. Ladies, you might want to reserve a night before the waiting list gets too long!
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Old 03-25-2013, 11:38 AM
 
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o_O how are you skilled at receiving oral?
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Old 03-25-2013, 11:40 AM
 
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o_O how are you skilled at receiving oral?
I was wondering the same thing. hehe
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Old 03-25-2013, 11:41 AM
 
Location: Des Moines IA
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All I have to offer are skittles and a bus pass...and I missed lunch, so I may be out of skittles
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Old 03-25-2013, 11:45 AM
 
Location: Florida
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o_O how are you skilled at receiving oral?
I'm great at it.

My package is the right size, big enough that the experience is a turn-on for her, but not so big it's uncomfortable or hurts her jaw.

I'm also good at adding levity to the experience with the right kind of dirty talk.

Finally, when I'm receiving oral from a chick for the first time, I always offer to courtesy tap (though I admit I like it better when she declines the offer).
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