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Old 08-24-2014, 08:23 PM
 
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The point is that just because a man stares, it doesn't mean he has to talk to her. Ignoring them won't do a thing because most men won't care if they don't know the woman. I look at women all the time. Am I obligated to talk to her? Nope. Does she have to read my mind? Nope. Will she ignore me? Yeah, and I don't care because I don't know her. If I really like a woman, I'll approach her. So far, haven't met such a woman.
and I hate having to go through the tests that women give men
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Old 08-24-2014, 08:47 PM
 
Location: Pa
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yep, if you can keep the lady entertained, you can have her eating out of your hands.



hey girl you cant be old, you are only 29!!
Yes entertain me. And you are right! Lol!
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I know for a fact you're at least half right.

Lol, I know.
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Old 08-25-2014, 07:00 AM
 
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Do most guys learn from their Dad or brothers or some other male role model early in their life that teaches them how to get a girlfriend, attract women? Where do guys get the confidence and social-skills, conversations skills that are essential for getting a girlfriend?
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Old 08-25-2014, 07:24 AM
 
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Do most guys learn from their Dad or brothers or some other male role model early in their life that teaches them how to get a girlfriend, attract women? Where do guys get the confidence and social-skills, conversations skills that are essential for getting a girlfriend?
From reruns of Happy Days.
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Old 08-25-2014, 07:27 AM
 
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From reruns of Happy Days.
So all I have to do is wear a leather jacket and punch a juke box once in a while. Who knew it was that easy?
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Old 08-25-2014, 07:37 AM
 
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Do most guys learn from their Dad or brothers or some other male role model early in their life that teaches them how to get a girlfriend, attract women? Where do guys get the confidence and social-skills, conversations skills that are essential for getting a girlfriend?
You either have it or you don't so I don't know why women think men with no success in dating could pull it out of thin air. Women should try getting rejected fifty times and see if they are still confident about approaching the opposite sex, oh thats right its amans job.
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Old 08-25-2014, 07:48 AM
 
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You either have it or you don't so I don't know why women think men with no success in dating could pull it out of thin air. Women should try getting rejected fifty times and see if they are still confident about approaching the opposite sex, oh thats right its amans job.
Its not just women on here there's also some men who speak and think this way as well.
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Old 08-25-2014, 07:57 AM
 
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Its not just women on here there's also some men who speak and think this way as well.
Plus 1.
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Old 08-25-2014, 09:45 AM
 
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Do most guys learn from their Dad or brothers or some other male role model early in their life that teaches them how to get a girlfriend, attract women? Where do guys get the confidence and social-skills, conversations skills that are essential for getting a girlfriend?
the education for these can come from a parent, a friend, a male role model, but as with any skill you learn by doing. sure i can coach you along, give you tips to bypass mistakes and advance your learning curve, but in the end i cant give you 40 years of chasing women knowledge. you have to ultimately learn that yourself.

it would be like me trying to teach you how to build a street rod. i can lecture you on how to do it, but untill you actually do it, you really dont know how to build a street rod.

as for confidence, that comes from within. no one can give you confidence, you have to develop that for yourself.

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You either have it or you don't so I don't know why women think men with no success in dating could pull it out of thin air. Women should try getting rejected fifty times and see if they are still confident about approaching the opposite sex, oh thats right its amans job.
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Its not just women on here there's also some men who speak and think this way as well.
hey i get shot down all the time, but that doesnt stop me for getting back up and going again. if you dont try, you never get. its like asking john force when he knew that he could run faster than 4 seconds in teh quarter mile. his reply would be when i did it.
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Old 08-25-2014, 09:51 AM
 
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the education for these can come from a parent, a friend, a male role model, but as with any skill you learn by doing. sure i can coach you along, give you tips to bypass mistakes and advance your learning curve, but in the end i cant give you 40 years of chasing women knowledge. you have to ultimately learn that yourself.

it would be like me trying to teach you how to build a street rod. i can lecture you on how to do it, but untill you actually do it, you really dont know how to build a street rod.

as for confidence, that comes from within. no one can give you confidence, you have to develop that for yourself.





hey i get shot down all the time, but that doesnt stop me for getting back up and going again. if you dont try, you never get. its like asking john force when he knew that he could run faster than 4 seconds in teh quarter mile. his reply would be when i did it.
Im sorry but some of us get to the point where enough is enough.
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