Why do girls that reject you still try to talk you? (dating, attracted)
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Does this happen to anyone else? A girl will reject me then she'll still talk to me even months later. I've had some girls that have rejected me go out of their way to talk to me again, so I'm not initiating anything this time around.
If a girl rejects me I want her to leave me alone and I want nothing to do with her. Anyone agree?
Well, if they've already hurt my feelings and made me so upset the last thing I want to do is keep talking to them.
how are they hurting your feelings?
are they purposefully coming out and trying to antagonize you or make you into a joke when rejecting your romantic nods to them?
if so, good for you you should be ignoring these people and not returning their conversation advances for very obvious reasons
if not, its not your feelings being hurt its your male ego not being able to get over the fact someone doesn't want your penis when you want them to have it
Does this happen to anyone else? A girl will reject me then she'll still talk to me even months later. I've had some girls that have rejected me go out of their way to talk to me again, so I'm not initiating anything this time around.
If a girl rejects me I want her to leave me alone and I want nothing to do with her. Anyone agree?
I think the problem is all in the way you are choosing to see things.
Let me guess, you are calling being turned down for a date "rejection", right?
Real rejection is so much worse than that dude.
If a girl declines your offer of a date that doesn't mean she thinks you're a bad guy or someone she is disgusted by.
It usually just means she doesn't find you attractive in a romantic kind of way, you know, there''s just no physical attraction or chemistry.
But she can STILL want to be friends or hang out with you in a group because she thinks you're cool or nice. THAT is why she would still try talking to you. Get it?
I don't see a problem. The above poster, rego00123, is right, she isn't hurting you and it's not her fault she is not interested. I simply forget about girls that aren't interested. You can't change their minds if they aren't attracted to you. Thus, there is little point feeling bad or hurt. Now if you were already dating that is different. Getting rejected is a fact of dating and there is no point in getting hurt about it.
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