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Old 08-12-2012, 02:36 PM
 
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So, i put up my profile on zoosk, mostly for ****s and giggles and winked at a pretty girl, who gave me her email addy. i kept it short and sweet, but got this huge letter in reply, that sort of screams scam to me. provided she isnt asking for any money, and is extremely attractive (red flag) but wouldnt invest any time in responding with anything of substance without feeling stupid for having wasted time. Im 99% sure it isnt real, but figured id ask for your take? There were 11 pics attached to this email 9scanned for viruses and clean)...fyi Also, if i believed this to be actual correspondence i would have kept it private but with so many red flags popping up, im pretty sure it doesnt matter.

Hello,
How are you doing and thanks for keeping in touch.I hope you are not one of those ass hole on the site looking for a lady to talk dirty with cos there are lots of bull**** on the site, Well i don't need to go into that much cos I'll be deleting my profile there soon, Anyway this will give you an idea of who i am and what I'm about and if you like what you see the we can go on from there, I'm Jammie Bello,26yrs.I'm white, Brown hair, brown eyes, 5'6 fit tall... I'm very easy to get along with, I'm sincere, honest, trustworthy, loving, caring, generous, passionate and romantic woman with an excellent sense of humor. I love to make people laugh, I'm a woman that believes in opening doors for the right man and treating him with the respect that he deserves.I am presently in Alaska on a Modeling Seminar and will be back home hopefully in few days time,would have loved to talk ob the phone but i cant cus where i am right now am out of network coverage but will let you know when am within network coverage,so we just have to use emails till i get back to Chicago.

Well I consider myself a family oriented person and love children.Some of the things I like to do are listening to music, going to the movies, the beach, hiking, fishing, sitting in a park,stargazing and cookouts. I enjoy doing just about anything specially with the company of someone special.. I'm looking for a serious relationship that will end up in marriage cos I'm in the final stages of life where i need a man to be with and to spend the rest of my life with, My Occupation is Model and I am Single.I don't drink and i don't smoke.I Will travel any distance for the right man if things work out between us.

Well i have many to list, My philosophy in life is short and i try to take in all i can. I will try anything and if i like it I will do it again. I love the outdoors, nature, the water,animals,people, traveling,camping and fishing,eating at fancy restaurants or a pub, cooking a fancy dinner for my man or having him cook for me,going to watch movies, listening to good music, going to a concert or theatre house. I like many kinds of music except gangster Rap, I like to dance and to learn new things. I'm always interested in any type of self-improvement and going to good seminars.

I enjoy my work and am very ambitious. I also enjoy romance and relaxing, quality time with a good man. A serious man is the key word here. This seems to be some what of a commodity in today’s day and age but i haven't given up my search cause i believe he is out there somewhere searching for me.My true love, my soul mate,my prince. When i find him, I will dedicate my life to him and spend the rest of my life with him.This may be you??? Who knows? I'm a loving, caring, passionate, understanding, honest, trustworthy, patient and have a very good sense of humor.

The reason am going to write a letter rather than just send a short message is because I'm serious about wanting to establish a quality friendship with you, and because of the fact i rarely contact anyone, So when i do you can be rest assured I'm serious about my intentions.

Well I'm looking for my other half, I mean a man that will be able to stand on his words, A man that will be able listen to me, Communicate his feelings to me, Make me laugh, Hold and comfort me in every way, Stand by my side, Respect me like I'll respect him, Passionate lover in every way, Support me in every way, Love me and only me, Make me smile always, Protect me when needed, Romantic time to time, Constantly creative and treat me right. I know you will think what a pretty young lady like me doing on net, Actually,

The reason i came on the net to find the special person who deserves all the love and passion that makes up my heart and soul is because i do not have the chance and time to meet others out in a public setting due to my modeling carrier,and besides the fact i feel you can learn so much about someone is through letters and what you have been sharing in common as a person has to take there time and think about the words they want to express, So it allows you to gain a better understanding of someone than you would probably otherwise.

The very reason I'm interested in establishing a friendship with you is because i feel we have a lot in common and besides i have a lot to offer in the way of a friendship and i know i also have a lot to share with that will be of interest to you and even some things that will surprise you. I'm very much a woman of substance and I'm very unique in today's society because i live my life through my spirituality and through the word of GOD and because i have such a strong understanding of what i feel my role in life is suppose to be.

One thing again is that I'm a woman of integrity and my word is my honor!!! I have very high standards for myself and my life is all about providing love, Peace, Happiness and making others happy. For you to get a better understanding of me, Picture a waterfall in your mind and instead of all the water overflowing it is all the love and passion i have in my heart to give to others who are deserving, As the love and passion has an endless flow coming out of my heart where others write many people and keep there messages short because they are all about how many they can write.
I will stop here and will wait to hear from you soon.
Yours Faithfully.
Jammie.
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Old 08-12-2012, 02:46 PM
 
Location: New Jersey
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So, i put up my profile on zoosk, mostly for ****s and giggles and winked at a pretty girl, who gave me her email addy. i kept it short and sweet, but got this huge letter in reply, that sort of screams scam to me. provided she isnt asking for any money, and is extremely attractive (red flag) but wouldnt invest any time in responding with anything of substance without feeling stupid for having wasted time. Im 99% sure it isnt real, but figured id ask for your take? There were 11 pics attached to this email 9scanned for viruses and clean)...fyi Also, if i believed this to be actual correspondence i would have kept it private but with so many red flags popping up, im pretty sure it doesnt matter.

Hello,
How are you doing and thanks for keeping in touch.I hope you are not one of those ass hole on the site looking for a lady to talk dirty with cos there are lots of bull**** on the site, Well i don't need to go into that much cos I'll be deleting my profile there soon, Anyway this will give you an idea of who i am and what I'm about and if you like what you see the we can go on from there, I'm Jammie Bello,26yrs.I'm white, Brown hair, brown eyes, 5'6 fit tall... I'm very easy to get along with, I'm sincere, honest, trustworthy, loving, caring, generous, passionate and romantic woman with an excellent sense of humor. I love to make people laugh, I'm a woman that believes in opening doors for the right man and treating him with the respect that he deserves.I am presently in Alaska on a Modeling Seminar and will be back home hopefully in few days time,would have loved to talk ob the phone but i cant cus where i am right now am out of network coverage but will let you know when am within network coverage,so we just have to use emails till i get back to Chicago.

Well I consider myself a family oriented person and love children.Some of the things I like to do are listening to music, going to the movies, the beach, hiking, fishing, sitting in a park,stargazing and cookouts. I enjoy doing just about anything specially with the company of someone special.. I'm looking for a serious relationship that will end up in marriage cos I'm in the final stages of life where i need a man to be with and to spend the rest of my life with, My Occupation is Model and I am Single.I don't drink and i don't smoke.I Will travel any distance for the right man if things work out between us.

Well i have many to list, My philosophy in life is short and i try to take in all i can. I will try anything and if i like it I will do it again. I love the outdoors, nature, the water,animals,people, traveling,camping and fishing,eating at fancy restaurants or a pub, cooking a fancy dinner for my man or having him cook for me,going to watch movies, listening to good music, going to a concert or theatre house. I like many kinds of music except gangster Rap, I like to dance and to learn new things. I'm always interested in any type of self-improvement and going to good seminars.

I enjoy my work and am very ambitious. I also enjoy romance and relaxing, quality time with a good man. A serious man is the key word here. This seems to be some what of a commodity in today’s day and age but i haven't given up my search cause i believe he is out there somewhere searching for me.My true love, my soul mate,my prince. When i find him, I will dedicate my life to him and spend the rest of my life with him.This may be you??? Who knows? I'm a loving, caring, passionate, understanding, honest, trustworthy, patient and have a very good sense of humor.

The reason am going to write a letter rather than just send a short message is because I'm serious about wanting to establish a quality friendship with you, and because of the fact i rarely contact anyone, So when i do you can be rest assured I'm serious about my intentions.

Well I'm looking for my other half, I mean a man that will be able to stand on his words, A man that will be able listen to me, Communicate his feelings to me, Make me laugh, Hold and comfort me in every way, Stand by my side, Respect me like I'll respect him, Passionate lover in every way, Support me in every way, Love me and only me, Make me smile always, Protect me when needed, Romantic time to time, Constantly creative and treat me right. I know you will think what a pretty young lady like me doing on net, Actually,

The reason i came on the net to find the special person who deserves all the love and passion that makes up my heart and soul is because i do not have the chance and time to meet others out in a public setting due to my modeling carrier,and besides the fact i feel you can learn so much about someone is through letters and what you have been sharing in common as a person has to take there time and think about the words they want to express, So it allows you to gain a better understanding of someone than you would probably otherwise.

The very reason I'm interested in establishing a friendship with you is because i feel we have a lot in common and besides i have a lot to offer in the way of a friendship and i know i also have a lot to share with that will be of interest to you and even some things that will surprise you. I'm very much a woman of substance and I'm very unique in today's society because i live my life through my spirituality and through the word of GOD and because i have such a strong understanding of what i feel my role in life is suppose to be.

One thing again is that I'm a woman of integrity and my word is my honor!!! I have very high standards for myself and my life is all about providing love, Peace, Happiness and making others happy. For you to get a better understanding of me, Picture a waterfall in your mind and instead of all the water overflowing it is all the love and passion i have in my heart to give to others who are deserving, As the love and passion has an endless flow coming out of my heart where others write many people and keep there messages short because they are all about how many they can write.
I will stop here and will wait to hear from you soon.
Yours Faithfully.
Jammie.
Dude, I Just got diabetes reading this. Her prince? Soul mate? In the first few lines? Sounds scripted. Like after this "friendship" is established there will be a kicker. If you pursue this, Tread REAL carefully. Bear in mind trust is earned not given and when getting involved with another person, Be it friendship, Intimacy or other this has to earned fairly.

You sure it's a man at all? Lots of con artists in the cyberworld. And her name is Jammie???
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Old 08-12-2012, 02:51 PM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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This response is all over the place. There are a few 5 cent words thrown in and yet it is rife with bad grammar and slang. Did you say that you were religious?

Weird.
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Old 08-12-2012, 02:51 PM
 
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Dude, I Just got diabetes reading this. Her prince? Soul mate? In the first few lines? Sounds scripted. Like after this "friendship" is established there will be a kicker. If you pursue this, Tread REAL carefully. Bear in mind trust is earned not given and when getting involved with another person, Be it friendship, Intimacy or other this has to earned fairly.

You sure it's a man at all? Lots of con artists in the cyberworld. And her name is Jammie???
not sure of anything, except that the pictures sent are clean and there are dozens of red flags in the email text itself. I studied information system security for 4 years, so would never send a penny, provide any personal info or allow my pc to get infected with a backdoor virus, i have nothing to risk except for time spent replying, and you know as they say, time IS money. The only thing that makes me hesitant from deleting this email and blcoking sender, is the fact that the email itself doesnt ask for anything or any information in particular, which is rarity for email scams. If i were to guess, that may be in a follow up email? who knows
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Old 08-12-2012, 02:51 PM
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Location: Tall Building down by the river
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Dude, I Just got diabetes reading this. Her prince? Soul mate? In the first few lines? Sounds scripted. Like after this "friendship" is established there will be a kicker. If you pursue this, Tread REAL carefully. Bear in mind trust is earned not given and when getting involved with another person, Be it friendship, Intimacy or other this has to earned fairly.

You sure it's a man at all? Lots of con artists in the cyberworld. And her name is Jammie???


As soon as I read the line..........."I hope you are not one of those *******s"

SCAM!!!
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Old 08-12-2012, 02:53 PM
 
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This response is all over the place. There are a few 5 cent words thrown in and yet it is rife with bad grammar and slang. Did you say that you were religious?

Weird.
no, i didnt tell her i was religious. however the email is slightly personalized to my profile info, which would also be rarity for email scams. i did notice use of slang and bad grammar as well, first red flag that popped up.
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Old 08-12-2012, 02:53 PM
 
Location: NYC
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"Well i don't need to go into that much cos I'll be deleting my profile there soon"

that's as far as i needed to read

scam, delete, ignore

what happened to the gal from that other thread who you liked?
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Old 08-12-2012, 02:58 PM
 
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"Well i don't need to go into that much cos I'll be deleting my profile there soon"

that's as far as i needed to read

scam, delete, ignore

what happened to the gal from that other thread who you liked?
Yeah, she'll be deleting her profile from there soon, becasue zoosk is going to get rid of it =) Which thread?
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Old 08-12-2012, 02:58 PM
 
Location: New Jersey
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"Well i don't need to go into that much cos I'll be deleting my profile there soon"

that's as far as i needed to read

scam, delete, ignore

what happened to the gal from that other thread who you liked?

LOL @ 'gal'
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Old 08-12-2012, 02:59 PM
 
Location: New Jersey
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not sure of anything, except that the pictures sent are clean and there are dozens of red flags in the email text itself. I studied information system security for 4 years, so would never send a penny, provide any personal info or allow my pc to get infected with a backdoor virus, i have nothing to risk except for time spent replying, and you know as they say, time IS money. The only thing that makes me hesitant from deleting this email and blcoking sender, is the fact that the email itself doesnt ask for anything or any information in particular, which is rarity for email scams. If i were to guess, that may be in a follow up email? who knows
Agreed. This e-mail would be to establish contact, followed by trust. I am in agreement with the majority here folks. To Ascention; Is there any meetup groups, clubs or social venues that you could meet some women in person? What about Church, Mosque or temples that you may attend? While meeting someone in person does not guarantee their character it still has advantages over online.
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