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Old 11-04-2011, 07:39 PM
 
Location: PA/NJ
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Been married 6 yrs now,and feels like the standard sex diminishing. I can't go for more than a week or 2 without contact or I start to get a little crazy. I've talked to her about it and not sure if she really cares or not. Without rocking the boat here,I feel like just getting sex on the side sometimes. I wasn't really good at it when I was single,not sure about it now either^

 
Old 11-04-2011, 07:42 PM
 
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Been married 6 yrs now,and feels like the standard sex diminishing. I can't go for more than a week or 2 without contact or I start to get a little crazy. I've talked to her about it and not sure if she really cares or not. Without rocking the boat here,I feel like just getting sex on the side sometimes. I wasn't really good at it when I was single,not sure about it now either^
Is this something you intend to share with your wife? If so, I imagine the net provides opportunity for casual sex. You could always pay for it as well.

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Old 11-04-2011, 07:42 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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Been married 6 yrs now,and feels like the standard sex diminishing. I can't go for more than a week or 2 without contact or I start to get a little crazy. I've talked to her about it and not sure if she really cares or not. Without rocking the boat here,I feel like just getting sex on the side sometimes. I wasn't really good at it when I was single,not sure about it now either^
What did you do when you were single then...? Were you able to have sex at least every week?
 
Old 11-04-2011, 07:43 PM
 
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Been married 6 yrs now,and feels like the standard sex diminishing. I can't go for more than a week or 2 without contact or I start to get a little crazy. I've talked to her about it and not sure if she really cares or not. Without rocking the boat here,I feel like just getting sex on the side sometimes. I wasn't really good at it when I was single,not sure about it now either^
Just sign up for one of the online dating sites and enjoy yourself. OkCupid, Match, and Plenty of Fish are all good choices.

Normally, I wouldn't recommend cheating, but it sounds like your wife doesn't care so why should you? Forget about her and go have some fun because life is too short to be depressed, miserable, and sexless.
 
Old 11-04-2011, 08:08 PM
 
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As long as you realize and accept that your actions will almost certainly cause your wife extreme pain and misery and end in the death of your marriage, then go right ahead! Whatever feels good to you right?
 
Old 11-04-2011, 08:10 PM
 
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Just sign up for one of the online dating sites and enjoy yourself. OkCupid, Match, and Plenty of Fish are all good choices.

Normally, I wouldn't recommend cheating, but it sounds like your wife doesn't care so why should you? Forget about her and go have some fun because life is too short to be depressed, miserable, and sexless.
There is no reason to cheat. He could just tell her the deal. If he cheats and then sleeps with his wife he puts her life in jeopardy. That goes from cheating to evil.
 
Old 11-04-2011, 08:16 PM
 
Location: Somewhere out there...
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Go ahead and do it, when you get caught, and you will eventually, she will make you suffer.
 
Old 11-04-2011, 08:21 PM
 
Location: England, somewhere, maybe the moon actually
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You say you have talked to her about it............have you asked her if you're satisfying her sexually, emotionally, do you talk about the things you both do sexually, variations, fantisies etc. Is there any way that you think you could rev it up a bit. I dont know what you do/have done but

stivking to normal things like,

sexy text at lunchtime during work,

buy some naughty underwear/outfit

flowers - roses

cook candlelite dinner for her

if your a bit more hardcore than this anyway go for something way out there.

That way you would be able to see if it was you she is not intersted in or just sex in general. We all know it can get boring after a while.

You sound like you still want her, so if you can get past her barrier a little bit maybe you could mention something you like and see if it gets her going for you. Just my thoughts.
 
Old 11-04-2011, 08:58 PM
 
Location: PA/NJ
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What did you do when you were single then...? Were you able to have sex at least every week?
Nope...twice a year average
 
Old 11-04-2011, 08:59 PM
 
Location: PA/NJ
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Just sign up for one of the online dating sites and enjoy yourself. OkCupid, Match, and Plenty of Fish are all good choices
Did those back in 2000 and got like 3 responses
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