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I did not think you equated them at all. But the comparison I see is do you prefer hockey or ice cream?
Yes, I intended the hockey vs. ice cream comparison, which BTW is a true dichotomy for me as I really love both. I was once sitting at the United Center and REALLY wanted a Ben & Jerry's cone, but did not want to miss any of the Blackhawks game so I had to forgo it. Maybe I should next create a thread entitled "Hockey vs Ice Cream." I love the Blackhawks more than ice cream! Can you believe their streak this year!
I'm not really using C-D to research serious relationship dichotomies.... I mainly post for fun, which I believe you may not appreciate, and that's fine. I am likely too silly and frivolous-thread creating for your sensibilities.
Couldn't agree more. And it seems many who occupy the relationship section have limited or no experience with relationships, so spend time talking about hypotheticals, making up weird polls, or nitpicking over the opposite gender's height, weight, nose size, shoe size, dating someone with bad teeth, or unemployed, arbitrary rating scales, etc, etc, instead of actually discussing real relationships and real relationship issues.
So no fun polls by people who are in real relationships? I think my time on this forum may be coming to an end as I can not be that serious all the time.... I need light-hearted threads for relief. Oh well.
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I just took it as a question regarding a hypothetical situation for fun, and not indicative at all of actual relationship dynamics.
Couldn't agree more. And it seems many who occupy the relationship section have limited or no experience with relationships, ....
Or have such self limiting, self imposed expectations and limitations as to render a real conversation about relationships useless. The poster above talking about sex with the same person being boring and spare me the you have to spice it up is a great example. If that is how you limit yourself, if that is how you filter your expectations, that is what you are going to get. I have been with my husband for over 20 years. Sex has only gotten better. And it has pretty much nothing to do with who, me, him or the kids, does the laundry.
So no fun polls by people who are in real relationships? I think my time on this forum may be coming to an end as I can not be that serious all the time.... I need light-hearted threads for relief. Oh well.
Finally, someone who understands me! LOL
I come here to get a laugh, I don't take any of these people seriously, neither should you.
Having sex with the same person over and over is going to get dull after a while, I rather have a clean house. And please spare me your you have to spice it up with your spouse blah, blah, blah.
That's your problem, not mine! Consider yourself spared.
So no fun polls by people who are in real relationships? I think my time on this forum may be coming to an end as I can not be that serious all the time.... I need light-hearted threads for relief. Oh well.
It's not about seriousness, but the relationship section is cluttered with posts that really have nothing to do with actual relationships.
Picking between adequate sex and a neat home versus amazing sex and a messy home = fun? I like fun as much as the next person but I don't get any enjoyment from polls like this, and it's not you personally. Polls about would she prefer the fancy car to the fancy house...still don't get the "fun" of it.
Or have such self limiting, self imposed expectations and limitations as to render a real conversation about relationships useless. The poster above talking about sex with the same person being boring and spare me the you have to spice it up is a great example. If that is how you limit yourself, if that is how you filter your expectations, that is what you are going to get. I have been with my husband for over 20 years. Sex has only gotten better. And it has pretty much nothing to do with who, me, him or the kids, does the laundry.
I guess you are referring to me, yes having sex with the same person over and over is boring. I like a variety, if that's "limiting myself" oh well.
1) An exceptionally clean and orderly house and a partner who is adequate in bed
2) An untidy and disorderly house and a partner who is exceptional in bed
Also, please state whether you are male or female.
p.s. Do not choose other - exceptionally clean house and exceptional in bed, as we would all choose that!
Female
#2
For the record, we all have different levels of tolerance, when it comes to a clean house. If the house were an absolute pig sty though....and the "masterful in bed" man was a complete and utter lazy slob otherwise, it would completely negate the "masterful in bed" qualities. I couldn't get hot for a lazy slob, no matter how good he was in bed.
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