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Do you let them know you are? When one of them asks you to do something when you have plans with sometime ether, do you make up a lie or tell the person that the truth?
When dating someone new, or early on, there should be no expectation on exclusivity. I see no reason to offer up that you are dating multiple people in the early stages.
I also see no reason to tell them you have another date if you decline an offer for a date.
I say I have other plans. It's not yet their business what those plans are - once we've agreed on exclusivity, then I will tell them what I'm doing, but of course that will no longer be another date. Depending on the person and situation, I may tell them anyway, and if we've agreed to be non-exclusive and date others, there is no reason not to tell them.
Do you let them know you are? When one of them asks you to do something when you have plans with sometime ether, do you make up a lie or tell the person that the truth?
I would want to know if my date is also dating others. I've never casually dated more than one person at a time, but I still think it's better to be up-front about it so everyone knows where they stand.
So I say I got other plans. .... then in the evening I get a text saying, "I did this ... and that ... today, what did you do?".
What do you answer?
You say what you did but leave the fact out that you did it with another guy/girl?
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