Really could use some opinions re: guy I've been dating

[kat949]

Originally Posted by JLeigh2182

He didn't mention anything about wanting to see me and not being able to or when exactly all this work drama would be over (he works for the government) so I'm not really holding out hope that this is going to go anywhere.

If it comes out that he's dating other people then I have no problem with that. We're far from exclusive and I'm keeping my options open as well. However, I do appreciate that I heard from him...even though I would appreciate honesty instead of excuses.

I will be curious to see if I hear from him again. In the meantime, perhaps I'll meet someone else.

Thank you all again for your insight.

I was gonna say.. he doesn't seem genuine with you.

Whatever his schedule is, move him to the official acquaintance bin.

[NilaJones]

I thought I'm going to be busy at work for awhile was the universal code for I don't want to see you anymore?

I thought it was universal code for 'My wife and I are getting back together'.

[smalltowngirl25]

Originally Posted by filihok

Has no one ever been busy at work before?

Usually when somebody says they are going to be busy at work, that's pretty much standard code for they're not into you and are blowing you off.

[lastwomanstanding]

I STRONGLY suggest you do not call him or text him. He should come to you. Do NOT chase this man, you'll scare him off.

[lastwomanstanding]

Originally Posted by lilyflower3191981

This is what you deserve OP.

What a cute guy in the picture! The fact that he's kissing her hand doesn't hurt either

Just be cool OP, still let him come to you if he's going to. But don't wait, go find someone else.