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The first issue reveals no respect for boundaries, which automatically disqualifies him. The second issue, I can understand wanting your first name (did he offer his?) but your middle name? he just wants to google you. NEXT!
Nope, didn't offer his.
My name is unique enough that he could possibly get a hit on me from Google. Couldn't find me as I am mostly off the grid, but who knows what could be found.
My name is unique enough that he could possibly get a hit on me from Google. Couldn't find me as I am mostly off the grid, but who knows what could be found.
It's not only google. Trust me, I once spent time learning how to stalk people.
1. They GO on your body.
2. They're in a specific location on your body.
If you're not comfortable discussing it, that's one thing - but those are kind of (in addition to what the tattoo is, meaning, etc) the defining characteristics of a tattoo...
It's kind of unfair to bring up a subject (like mentioning it in a profile) - then claim people are "creeps" because they inquire about it...
1. They GO on your body.
2. They're in a specific location on your body.
If you're not comfortable discussing it, that's one thing - but those are kind of (in addition to what the tattoo is, meaning, etc) the defining characteristics of a tattoo...
It's kind of unfair to bring up a subject (like mentioning it in a profile) - then claim people are "creeps" because they inquire about it...
Clarification: I didnt't mention having tats on my profile. He asked if I had any, I said yes, he asked where. I said my back, he inquired further.
I think you are over reacting. Why set up a dating profile if you aren't willing to tell someone your name? That's weird. And wanting to know about tattoos is perfectly normal as well; some people hate them.
LOL - seriously, I told him they were on my back. In my mind, that should suffice. He then asked me 3 times WHERE on my back they were located. THAT'S what bothered me.
Oh, I see. Then he was probably shimmying his shammy while he was talking to you!
1. They GO on your body.
2. They're in a specific location on your body.
If you're not comfortable discussing it, that's one thing - but those are kind of (in addition to what the tattoo is, meaning, etc) the defining characteristics of a tattoo...
It's kind of unfair to bring up a subject (like mentioning it in a profile) - then claim people are "creeps" because they inquire about it...
The point is that he persisted in asking even when he said he suspected she was avoiding the question. So he knew he was making her uncomfortable and still kept at it. Without even having met her. I would not want to be with someone who was so at ease with trying to push someone's boundaries without even having met them.
Again - my profile does not mention tats. He asked. I was honest & said yes & gave a general location.
If he's not into them, thats great, move on.
Why so pushy to know exact location?
I did give him my first name as asked - keep in mind, we're only 12hrs in to this. I drew the line at my middle name.
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