I went out with my crush coworker who has a gf!! (woman, single)

[mattywo85]

I'm confused, you're both taken but you don't want to be?

[lovesMountains]

Originally Posted by Imdatgirl

If I wanted him to cheat, I had the opportunity. We were so close that our arms were touching each other, legs were touching each other our faces were too close to each other. I could have put my lips on his if I wanted to but I did not. I can totally break this guys relationship if I want but I don't like him that much. I have a crush on him like most of the girls at work. It's just a crush.

The very sad thing is, you do not even realize that by going out with him ON A DATE, and drinking enough to feel loose enough to be physical with him in any way IS CHEATING

And now you say you "don't even like him that much"??

So, you just like that feeling of power you think you have over him?

Girls like you make life harder for all the really nice girls out there

[Imdatgirl]

Originally Posted by lovesMountains

The very sad thing is, you do not even realize that by going out with him ON A DATE, and drinking enough to feel loose enough to be physical with him in any way IS CHEATING

We didn't kiss. There was just some touching of the skin nothing more. He texted me after we've hung out and he's still texting me actually.

[OdysseusNY]

just do a cost benefit analysis

by letting him put his hoo-hoo-dilly in your cha-cha...

benefits:

1. you can lord it over the other girls at work who also have a crush on this stud

2. you relieve him of the agonizing uncertainty of whether he should follow his brain or his heart

3. general improvement in coworker morale

costs:

1. you score free drinks

with three benefits and a negative cost, seems like a win win to me

[TheEarthBeneathMe]

Originally Posted by OdysseusNY

just do a cost benefit analysis

by letting him put his hoo-hoo-dilly in your cha-cha...

benefits:

1. you can lord it over the other girls at work who also have a crush on this stud

2. you relieve him of the agonizing uncertainty of whether he should follow his brain or his heart

3. general improvement in coworker morale

costs:

1. you score free drinks

with three benefits and a negative cost, seems like a win win to me

I agree.

Neither of them are serious about their partners, and definitely not serious about a relationship with each other.

[lovesMountains]

Originally Posted by Imdatgirl

We didn't kiss. There was just some touching of the skin nothing more. He texted me after we've hung out and he's still texting me actually.

Are you a blond by any chance?

Trying hard to figure out your style of reasoning

You honestly think you would have had to kiss for him to be cheating??

[srjth]

Originally Posted by lovesMountains

Are you a blond by any chance?

Trying hard to figure out your style of reasoning

You honestly think you would have had to kiss for him to be cheating??

I think she's just having an ego boost.

[lilyflower3191981]

Other women's men = second hand or used cars

Period.

Why can't you get your own man, op? There are tons of hot guys in orange county. Come on girlfriend, don't sell yourself short.

[Imdatgirl]

Originally Posted by lilyflower3191981

Other women's men = second hand or used cars

Period.

Why can't you get your own man, op? There are tons of hot guys in orange county. Come on girlfriend, don't sell yourself short.

Alot of girls from work has a crush on him including me but I don't like him that much. Maybe I was just curious. I'm dating one guy and I met someone the other day, a lawyer. He asked me out but he's pretty busy this week and he will be gone for a business trip this weekend. We're planning to go on a date next week.

[rego00123]

if you don't like him why the hell do you care?

move on and buy a sex aid at you local adult shop to cater to your needs. you're not describing being BF/GF, you're describing a screw buddy to get "it" out of your system.