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Old 04-29-2013, 11:54 PM
 
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if you don't like him why the hell do you care?
move on and buy a ***** at you local sex shop to cater to your needs.
Because we see each other at work. We talk at work and he looks at me differently. .
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Old 04-29-2013, 11:56 PM
 
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Because we see each other at work. We talk at work and he looks at me differently. .
and?
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Old 04-30-2013, 12:02 AM
 
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and?
I was just curious if he likes me.
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Old 04-30-2013, 12:28 AM
 
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and my question is "why" if you don't even like him "that much" those two things don't logically line up with one another.
you are looking for something from this guy because he can offer it and you want it. either do it or do not, that's your choice.

you wont be able to keep passing the buck all your life, start taking some personal responsibility in the situations your allow yourself in.
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Old 04-30-2013, 12:45 AM
 
Location: Up above the world so high!
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I think she's just having an ego boost.
A little girl in a woman's body - the exact type I taught my sons to avoid like the plague
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Old 04-30-2013, 01:00 AM
 
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When your attached to someone its thrilling to go out and have physical contact with another. If he were acutally dating this imdatgirl character he probably wouldn't be into her at all. Shes just someone who IS NOT his current gf. Us guys need variety. Its our nature..........
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Old 04-30-2013, 01:55 AM
 
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Me and this guy work for the same company. We work different shifts. Anyway today, we had a training at work and we were in the same class . I was surprised to get a text from him in class. We've texted before about random stuff. We've texted a few time in class.

I have a crush on this guy and I'm sure he finds me attractive too. I and other coworkers have caught him checking me out sometimes. We get really close sometimes like touching skin, touching ones arm, making handshakes. After the class, we talked and decided to hang out together. We grabbed some drinks. We got too close. We held hands once. Weve talked about personal stuff, his lovelife, my lovelife snd alot other things. We said bye and hugged. He said he had fun and I said I did too.

The thing is this guy has a long term gf and I'm dating someone but not exclusively. I'm just wondering if you guys think that this guy likes me? He said hes only 80% sure that he wants to be with his gf but he loves her. He also said that he has to use his brain and not his heart( talking about his gf).
Yeah he may actually like you and wants to do other 'things' with you, but it's on you if you're willing to take the risk. As you said, you have a crush on him but do you think that could develop into emotions or feelings for him if you do have sex? I mean that's what it's really all about. If you think you'd end up being sprung off the guy, then by all means avoid having sex with him. I feel like such a c-o-c-k block but I'm just telling you the truth.
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Old 04-30-2013, 03:16 AM
 
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Another woman who sees taken men as "higher status" than a single man.

Women love taken men and like the guy that all the females want.
Yeah because one or two anecdotes is a great way to extrapolate what "women" in general want or love.

Not.
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Old 04-30-2013, 04:09 AM
 
Location: Holtsville
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i think....he likes you too..as a friend,,
don't be serious...
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Old 04-30-2013, 09:25 AM
 
Location: On the corner of Grey Street
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How would you feel if you had a long term boyfriend and he was out flirting over drinks with one of his coworkers and telling personal things about your relationship to her? What goes around comes around.
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