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I've never had a girlfriend or date or a relationship. I'm 21, I'm not very shy, but quite timid at times. I even go to UNI, but damn I can't seem to even remotely find a girlfriend!
Most girls around here act uninterested and give little opportunity for you to exploit and generally avoid you!
In class, for the sake of my luck when it comes to group activities, for some reason I'm always in the group with men only!
Seriously my problems are situational, the right situation has never occurred for me to do get a girlfriend. So intimidating my case is.
I've never had a girlfriend or date or a relationship. I'm 21, I'm not very shy, but quite timid at times. I even go to UNI, but damn I can't seem to even remotely find a girlfriend!
Most girls around here act uninterested and give little opportunity for you to exploit and generally avoid you!
In class, for the sake of my luck when it comes to group activities, for some reason I'm always in the group with men only!
Seriously my problems are situational, the right situation has never occurred for me to do get a girlfriend. So intimidating my case is.
Any advice to increase chances?
Did you ever think about maybe... asking out women?
Your 21, in school and the one thing your worried about is finding a relationship? Your wearing your expectations on your sleeve and women can read that.
Give it time, finish school or what ever UNI is, get a good job and take care of yourself. Women will start coming to you, or so I hear.
When I was in HS if I like a girl, I would approach her and just get to know her. If she didn't feel the same way I do, I stay friends. If she did like me, I make my move. I figure being friends with the opposite sex doesn't hurt. I consider it networking. All my female friends have friends or cousins they would later introduce to me. It has work well all the way up till I got married.
Dating is a hunting game, if you don't go out there and hunt....don't expect to get anything. You have to put yourself out there. There will be more "NO" than "Yes" but it's all a numbers game. It's very, very easy to see if a person likes you if you "KNOW" what to ask without being so direct that if they rejects you...you come crashing down. You have to gauge their interest and you have to know how to READ between the line. Be charming, sweet but honest talker, be funny. The internet, media, Hollywood, everyone has told me that I fall under the catorgory of the least desire type of man to date and YET I have NEVER EVER had issues in the dating game.
you are at the age where a lot of people want to get into a relationship because most people are at the end of college and this is "the thing" to do...
You're still young though and you still have your entire life ahead of you to find someone. Take your time. As one person in their early 20s to another, you're not alone in your desires and eventually, if it's meant to be, you'll find someone.
Did you ever think about maybe... asking out women?
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