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I dont see a problem as long as you're comfortable with dating a women who has had close to that number of male partners herself. You could have a "regular" relationship with a not-so-regular women-lets be honest-there's nothing regular about your scenario. You should be open to dating women who may have some skeletons.
Being a musician and artist all my life - woman and sex in my youth were part of the game. The number mentioned here was 100 prostitutes. My number was probably close to that- but there is a difference. The sex I had was had through mutual consent. When you have sex with a prostitute there really is no true consent because you are coercing a desperate person with money...either money for basic human survival or for drugs because of an addiction.
by your standard, anyone who has a job is being coerced. such nonsense.
This is the truth - I've had sex with at least 100 working women, does that make me a bad person?
Not in my eyes, but it does depend on your life situation. If for example you have been cheating on someone while seeing the prostitutes, that would make you a bad person.
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Originally Posted by Kenneth-Kaunda
Would it scupper my chances of a date or regular relationship?
Most women, if you tell them that you've been with a prostitute, whether 1 or 100, they will get skeeved out and not want to date you. Some women won't care if you've been with one or two hookers, and spin it as something you did in your crazy past.
Other women will get concerned at the sheer number of partners, whether prostitutes or regular women. Over 100 is a LOT of different partners, and many people would not want to be with someone with that many partners.
Because being with a prostitute is all about getting your own satisfaction, I think you might have a problem when it comes time to giving pleasure to others and not just taking.
Also, seeing so many different prostitutes means you have come to expect and rely on variety. If you have a steady girlfriend, how are you going to be able to get yourself motivated to have sex with her for the 50th time or the 150th time?
We just found it odd that OP has to pay for sex. The only person I know who has to pay for sex is a 6'3" 370lb white dude with a four inches (you know what)
More than one response claiming that paying for sex makes someone a loser, with the assumption that talking a regular girl into sex makes one a winner. This attitude I don't understand. While it is possible to find people for no-strings-attached (NSA) sex, my experience says it is by no means a guarantee that when you want it, you will find it. More often then not you go home without it, and that's after spending time and money.
What I really don't understand are the comments that "sex is so easy to get." Are you saying that any random reasonable-looking guy can find himself horny at 5pm, and guarantee to find someone to have NSA sex with, in a couple of hours, without telling any lies? Where is this place?
Because that's what the OP is paying for - the guarantee that when he wants NSA sex, he will get it. Without any drama, without any misunderstandings, without any lies, without any phone calls/texts the next day.
More than one response claiming that paying for sex makes someone a loser, with the assumption that talking a regular girl into sex makes one a winner. This attitude I don't understand. While it is possible to find people for no-strings-attached (NSA) sex, my experience says it is by no means a guarantee that when you want it, you will find it. More often then not you go home without it, and that's after spending time and money.
What I really don't understand are the comments that "sex is so easy to get." Are you saying that any random reasonable-looking guy can find himself horny at 5pm, and guarantee to find someone to have NSA sex with, in a couple of hours, without telling any lies? Where is this place?
Because that's what the OP is paying for - the guarantee that when he wants NSA sex, he will get it. Without any drama, without any misunderstandings, without any lies, without any phone calls/texts the next day.
Originally Posted by Kenneth-Kaunda This is the truth - I've had sex with at least 100 working women, does that make me a bad person?
Would it scupper my chances of a date or regular relationship?
What do you think about this - I''ll give honest answers to any questions posed.
I seriously doubt that anyone on this forum really cares what you do with your life and how many you had to pay so they would have sex with you. It really is not that impressive.
I'm glad I do not have to pay anyone to be with me, it has to be a sad lonely circle to live in.
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