How do men feel about certain imperfections(naked)? (dating, wives, girlfriends)
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I want to become intimate with a guy I'm dating but I'm self conscious about being naked in front of him, making "sex" faces(lol) and everything else that comes along with being vulnerable. I know it sounds silly, but I have a lot of negative feelings about my body. So my question is when men see a woman naked, or have sex with her, how critical are you of her body and it's imperfections--such as stretch marks, cellulite, scars, discoloration, etc. How critical are you of her when she makes "faces" or noises during sex? And have you ever been surprised at how a woman looked with her clothes off(compared to on)--such as have you ever thought that she might look one way and she took her clothes off and her body looked bigger than what you imagined or not as toned(how did that make you feel?)
I've had a guy get up and leave just before we were going to get 'intimate' because my surgery scars on my stomach grossed him out. Men are extremely visual and some simply won't be able to become aroused if you have big physical flaws.
I've had a guy get up and leave just before we were going to get 'intimate' because my surgery scars on my stomach grossed him out. Men are extremely visual and some simply won't be able to become aroused if you have big physical flaws.
Eh, I could tell some way worse stories involving the ways guys I worked with talked about their own girlfriends/wives/women they hooked up with but I'll spare everyone the details.
Eh, I could tell some way worse stories involving the ways guys I worked with talked about their own girlfriends/wives/women they hooked up with but I'll spare everyone the details.
Honestly men are very insecure also. If you stare to much they are like"What?"
I once saw someone's facebook talking about a girl he hooked up with but I won't give details because I don't want to scare the OP or anyone else who might be reading. OP , do it in the dark at first if you are more comfortable that way. Most MEN I've been with want it dark at first, they are shy too. I am not (well, maybe a little) but I know most women are , most people are . It's true he's worried what you will think too. Do you best to get comfortable with your body as no one has a perfect body , no cellulite or whatever. Just have a good time
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Originally Posted by lastwomanstanding
I once saw someone's facebook talking about a girl he hooked up with but I won't give details because I don't want to scare the OP or anyone else who might be reading. OP , do it in the dark at first if you are more comfortable that way. Most MEN I've been with want it dark at first, they are shy too. I am not (well, maybe a little) but I know most women are , most people are . It's true he's worried what you will think too. Do you best to get comfortable with your body as no one has a perfect body , no cellulite or whatever. Just have a good time
Wow. I must not be like most men. I want it in the sunshine on the hood of a car.
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