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Old 05-26-2013, 12:10 AM
 
Location: Viña del Mar, Chile
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Im going to a bar for the first time in a WHILE - any tips? I'm going with a group of guys.

I tend to be "too nice" to women, at things like parties and bars. How do I change that?

I hookup or a phone number would be fun to get, any tips?

advice: go to the bar with your buddies, focus on your beer and having a good time.
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Old 05-26-2013, 12:25 AM
 
Location: So Cal
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advice: go to the bar with your buddies, focus on your beer and having a good time.
Yeah... true....

Every time I went out on the prowl, I came home empty handed, it seemed like the times I was just out hanging with the guys, not really looking... I'd meet someone....
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Old 05-26-2013, 12:32 AM
 
Location: Viña del Mar, Chile
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Yeah... true....

Every time I went out on the prowl, I came home empty handed, it seemed like the times I was just out hanging with the guys, not really looking... I'd meet someone....

Or end up with uglies. I remember one night we went out looking hard, we met some girls in a dark club who looked pretty hot. They invited us to their hotel and as soon as I saw them in the light I called a DD to get me the heck out of there. Two of my buddies didn't care, one had a 3some and the other took the 3rd girl.

I would say those girls would be considered 7s in the dark and 3s in the light
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Old 05-26-2013, 12:54 AM
 
Location: So Cal
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Or end up with uglies. I remember one night we went out looking hard, we met some girls in a dark club who looked pretty hot. They invited us to their hotel and as soon as I saw them in the light I called a DD to get me the heck out of there. Two of my buddies didn't care, one had a 3some and the other took the 3rd girl.

I would say those girls would be considered 7s in the dark and 3s in the light
Been there... done that...... have the t-shirt........


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Old 05-26-2013, 06:49 AM
 
Location: Baltimore, MD
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Expect to go home alone, drunk and broke.
That is silly.

I'd rather go out alone than stay home alone. I go out fairly often mostly to see live music and when the concert is over I expect to go home alone. It's not so bad. I haven't been drunk in 15 years! You don't have to go out and drink in excess (or drink at all) to have a good time.

No tips for the OP except if you make eye contact with someone don't be afraid to say hello. It can't hurt.
Keep your expectations low and you won't be disappointed.
Have a good time with your friends!
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Old 05-26-2013, 07:22 AM
 
Location: DFW
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As a guy who Bartended through college I learned 2 things:

1. Sober guys get more girls than drunk guys.

2. If you meet a girl, control the flow of alcohol to her.
There is a thin line between feeling good and having a girl too drunk to have sex fun.
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Old 05-26-2013, 07:25 AM
 
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That is silly.

I'd rather go out alone than stay home alone. I go out fairly often mostly to see live music and when the concert is over I expect to go home alone. It's not so bad. I haven't been drunk in 15 years! You don't have to go out and drink in excess (or drink at all) to have a good time.

No tips for the OP except if you make eye contact with someone don't be afraid to say hello. It can't hurt.
Keep your expectations low and you won't be disappointed.
Have a good time with your friends!
Great post
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