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It's normal to masturbate when you are in a relationship (at times when your partner is not available, or just because you feel like it).
But sex that leaves you feeling like you need to masturbate right afterwards does not sound like very great sex. Do you think this could be the cause of your wandering eyes? Do you feel comfortable telling your bf what you want in bed? Is he willing to try stuff you ask him to try?
It's also fine if you just want multiple partners. I'm just trying to figure out if that's what you want .
I mean...what is there to say here? You just sound like you're a fickle person who isn't at all concerned with the feelings of others. Self-centered and fickle...what else is there to say?
I was planning to and I will but for sure he's going to get hurt. He doesn't know I'm like this.
It's good but at times not as I expected, which I end up masturbating and in order to do that I have to watch some porn scene or read a sex novel (if I tried alone just like that it doesn't work). It gets even more frustrating to me if he's not there with me, even if it's only a day of not seeing me.
^^^this.
Come on.
Take care of your own needs for goodness sake. You've got an imagination, haven't you? Personally I have my best times when it's just me and Ryan and Leonardo.
They are called hormones and they will bother you on and off until menopause. Once menopause arrives you get more like a man, so your thoughts are more engaged with watching tv and masturbation, than love and romance.
It's very restful and much more satisfying.
True but I feel it's too high. My bf isn't too frequently into porn and sex. He does have sex urges too but isn't the type that would do it every single day.
Even when I was fully satisfied in my past relationships or when I first lost my virginity, I still wanted more the following day.
But sex that leaves you feeling like you need to masturbate right afterwards does not sound like very great sex. Do you think this could be the cause of your wandering eyes? Do you feel comfortable telling your bf what you want in bed? Is he willing to try stuff you ask him to try?
Thing is even if he was a master in sex, once he's not there or it's that's over, I still crave it the following day and want it more. I don't think the man is the problem but me.
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Originally Posted by NilaJones
It's also fine if you just want multiple partners. I'm just trying to figure out if that's what you want .
I mean...what is there to say here? You just sound like you're a fickle person who isn't at all concerned with the feelings of others. Self-centered and fickle...what else is there to say?
Yet, I must be feeling some guilt at the same time. At least I'm trying to get to the root of this and see if there is anyone that will decrease these urges or stop them.
True but I feel it's too high. My bf isn't too frequently into porn and sex. He does have sex urges too but isn't the type that would do it every single day.
Even when I was fully satisfied in my past relationships or when I first lost my virginity, I still wanted more the following day.
I was going to say "too bad" but hey who knows. Maybe you need some sort of drug to calm it down so you can be suitably Stepford.
Some antidepressants will kill your libido stone dead and also stop you worrying about trivial bs.
Actually it sounds more like the guys you are with...maybe they are the tv watching/masturbating types.
Another solution would be to have more than one lover. Shocking I know but some women do that.
Also, the thing about good sex is it makes you want more.
I have slept with inappropriate people over and over again just because the sex was so good.
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