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I'd seriously be flattered. I'm annoyed a lesbian hasn't hit on my yet!
Yes, you might like it, but just imagine this - you are a straight woman, you look like a 6'6" giant with man-looking face/body or certain traits, you work in the fire department... and you get hit on by a girly lesbian
Some things might be hilarious and flattering, or they might be just another hit in your dating life. I doubt that the OP would find it interesting if he saw a transsexual/butch lesbian hitting on him and arranging a date.
This topic sounds like such a difference of what most guys speak around. They generally say that it's them who generally have to make the first move and that women would generally use different tactics like visiting their profiles or sending them a buzz, but never messaging first.
Maybe the girl is bisexual (not lesbian) or you look more like a woman and she finds it acceptable. It's very known that many lesbians hit on men who look like women and that certain guys find that quite disturbing or hilarious, depending on circumstances, i.e. how she looks like.
Just imagine a short-haired and tallish or transsexual lesbian hitting on a short, chubby guy with more feminine-looking breasts HOROR
I guess that's the same effect upon straight women though, if a lesbian who seeks for a butch type partner hits on straight women by messaging, visiting their profile, buzzing or by some other way, it'd also depend on circumstances. They might find it hilarious if they do get hit by a butch type, but they might be freaked out if the shy girly lesbian seeks for a "man-alike" woman (tall, muscular, loud, boxer, etc)... and then they go like: "wth, I'm not looking like a guy/butch you freak, leave me alone!"
Other words - it's more about their ego. A guy likes the notion that he can seduce girly lesbians, but he might freak out if the lesbian isn't really what he might brag about.
LOL theres that many 6'1'' bearded lumberjacks around that look like women? haah i've never been confused for a chick.
Some lesbians are not 100% lesbian 100% of the time. Some do go "bi" now and then.
If it doesn't bother you, why not? I would meet her whether or not it went anywhere, as I'm always interested in new people and the opportunity to learn about something outside my usual experience.
Some lesbians are not 100% lesbian 100% of the time. Some do go "bi" now and then.
If it doesn't bother you, why not? I would meet her whether or not it went anywhere, as I'm always interested in new people and the opportunity to learn about something outside my usual experience.
I would just say they were always Bi then, even though the media really loves to play up the 'L' word like you can turn it on and off.
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