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Old 09-06-2013, 02:52 PM
 
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Hmm interesting perception, does it work for you? How does it work if you want a long term relationship?
LTR are no my style but it works as long as two people are in agreement. If someone expected such nonsense from me, I would kindly ask them to leave. We had no future together.
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Old 09-06-2013, 03:01 PM
 
Location: Chicago, IL
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A guy lit my fire when he prooved that he cared.
It was the extra o that put it over the top. Sometimes just proving isn't enough.
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Old 09-06-2013, 07:53 PM
 
Location: Pa
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It was the extra o that put it over the top. Sometimes just proving isn't enough.
Ah....yeah.
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Old 09-09-2013, 06:14 PM
 
Location: mainland but born oahu
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Lol Mahalo guys for the posts, i found each woman is different, sometimes the simple small approach works well, And then you have a few that really want you to work for it.

Never the less, life is good. Anyone else want to give away what works for them.
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Old 09-09-2013, 07:01 PM
 
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We all have our moves, and actions. Guys lets hear some of them. .
Be different then everyone else in the room. I'm an individual and don't "follow" well.

You either like it or you don't.

Can't please everyone.....not even the 89% who hate it.

I'm shooting for the 11% who do.
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Old 09-09-2013, 07:26 PM
 
Location: St. Joseph Area
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On cold winter mornings, I'll throw her coat into the dryer for a few minutes so it's toasty warm. I'll also warm her car up for her (heater and seat heater).
That...is an awesome idea. I'm so doing that when winter comes. Thanks for the tip.

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Which is why I am a cheap-ass bastard that goes on very low cost dates. Eating at restaurants, going to the movies, going to a ball game, buying drinks...


...That all costs money and us men have to pay DOUBLE the price of one. It would be nice to take a date to a restaurant, but that's only reserved for those who are exclusive with me.
But how would you get a woman to BE exclusive with you if you don't take her to a place to eat that's at least a little above the local Subway?

I do a couple of things

1. I do certain chores she doesn't like--washing dishes is her least favorite. So I'll wash while she dries. And we talk during it. It's a good time for me since I like conversation, and even though it's not my favorite chore either, but I know it means a lot to her. And a lot of times, what makes her happy makes me happy.

2. Cook a meal for her and let her just sit back and relax.

3. Whispering things into her ear. It sounds cheesy, but I'm best at communicating love verbally, and it really turns her on.

4. Physical affection. She likes to be hugged, rubbed and kissed, more than most women, it seems. I'm always happy to oblige.

5. Since writing's a hobby of mine, I also like to leave little notes. Sometimes steamy, sometimes sweet. Since we live away right now, I sometimes mail them to her as a surprise, but I plan to keep it up when we're married--just leaving little notes around the house for her.

6. And, of course, there's the obligatory flowers and chocolate. One day, I'd like to learn how to make candy and chocolates myself so I can really impress her. Right now I mostly just buy chocolate or sweets. But she still appreciates it.

I used to not be romantic at all until I fell in love with my fiancee. Now it's become a fun little challenge for me, always thinking of the next best way to sweep her off her feet. So far, I'm really enjoying this.
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Old 09-12-2013, 07:35 PM
 
Location: mainland but born oahu
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@mackinac81

Aloha, funny how that happens huh, ya all great stuff my friend Mahalo. Hope the best for you and your wahine.

Mahalo guys for your great posts. Anyone else would like to share there experience?
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Old 09-12-2013, 08:44 PM
 
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Go into great vivid detail of what's going to happen after I get off work and she does too.

Step by step with all the details.

It'll make 'em moist.



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Old 09-13-2013, 04:54 AM
 
Location: "Daytonnati"
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On cold winter mornings, I'll throw her coat into the dryer for a few minutes so it's toasty warm. I'll also warm her car up for her (heater and seat heater).
This is sweet!
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Old 09-13-2013, 04:58 AM
 
Location: "Daytonnati"
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I used to suprise my lover by picking him up from the bus stop on a cold winters day.

I would take off work early and drive up and used to enjoy the looks of suprise and smile on his face when I pulled up, saving him the wait in the cold rain & snow for the bus.
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