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Perhaps that's because there are too many males that think the same as you and we have given up on the notion that there just may be a few (or absolutely none) romantic men out there. Lord knows I have!
I was always (well... not always but an older gentleman pulled my coat tail to this) persuaded that men are the more romantic of the two sexes.
In general--there are exceptions for both sexes--I think men are the romancers and women are the critics.
Analogous to men being the novelists and artists and women being the literary critics and art critics.
Consider that men are generally the composers of love songs praising women. Consider that contemporary female singers are far more often than their male peers criticizing and putting down the opposite sex.
I was told--I never researched it to find out how true it is--that most romance novels bought by women are authored by men that go under a female pen-name to sell their books.
I would hazard a guess most poetry composed glorifying the opposite sex are composed by men.
Of course, when it comes to music you also have male and female duos that put out romance songs.
Supine - I've noticed my husband and men I've dated are more romantic than me. I know I'm particularly unromantic for a woman given that I just dislike a lot of romantic gestures (I'm always polite) but studies have come up with the same results.
I believe love is a chemical reaction in our bodies and if we want the feeling to continue, we must nurture these relationships. My husband says he fell in love at first sight. I think he probably smoked something before our first class together and forgot all about it. But that's sweet anyway.
I was thinking the same thing! I love romance, even thinking maybe I should look into how to romance a guy. But although I think the OPs kisses on the floor idea is really cute , it IS the real stuff that counts even if someone is not romantic. The post OP is commenting on said romance to her is proving he cares. (the OP clearly doesn't agree "are you serious? Poor girl.") It is guys. It really is. Real stuff over romance but I'll take the romance too thank you
I walk up to a hottie, pick her up, look her deep in her eyes and say "should we go make babies?"
forget romantic, young beautiful girls want nothing to do with romantic.
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Originally Posted by Ascension2012
Women baffled me when I was younger and had low level of success with them = thought of them as many foolish guys on CDR do. Today I know them all too well. Inside and out, like taking candy from the baby.
Have the strong feeling that this gentleman faces a bleak future with the opposite sex. After he goes through all the tramps and those with little or no self esteeem, and the decent women shun him, will likely find himself quite lonely.
I was thinking the same thing! I love romance, even thinking maybe I should look into how to romance a guy. But although I think the OPs kisses on the floor idea is really cute , it IS the real stuff that counts even if someone is not romantic. The post OP is commenting on said romance to her is proving he cares. (the OP clearly doesn't agree "are you serious? Poor girl.") It is guys. It really is. Real stuff over romance but I'll take the romance too thank you
I committed on that when i was halfway asleep, i got the ideal from her comment "that a guy lit my fire when he proved that he cared" I took that as when a guy does enough acts or actions to prove that hes cares to be kinda sad! Because in my opinion if a guy only wants to be with you, and does romatic gestures, should be enough to prove that he cares. and that your important, out of all the millions of ladies in the world he chosen you. Ya i agree committment, honesty, partnership etc is most important.
Further, my hope for this thread was to throw out ideals of romantic things to do and actions. And hope you ladies would comment on if that was gd etc.
I like my wahine to massage my feet, give me a good backrub, fix up some exotic fancy cuisine and... surprise me with a big schwong.. lol wear his bath towel.. fan me and all.. ooh la la wahine
nah.
My wahine special delight would be... I'd love to travel right in the middle of the dark desert and we can burn a bonfire and make out underneath the stars.
I like my wahine to massage my feet, give me a good backrub, fix up some exotic fancy cuisine and... surprise me with a big schwong.. lol wear his bath towel.. fan me and all.. ooh la la wahine
nah.
My wahine special delight would be... I'd love to travel right in the middle of the dark desert and we can burn a bonfire and make out underneath the stars.
We all have our moves, and actions. Guys lets hear some of them. Ladies what do u think? Oh guys we don't have to give away the book ok lol. I will start .
1. I like to get flowers for that special wahine, and on the card put "just because"
2 Sometimes i like to scatter chocolate kisses and hugs on the bedroom floor and leave a note that says i would get on my hands and knees for your hugs and kisses. (lol corny i know but i never start with my good moves lol)
I have a hundred different things lol. So guys share lol.
I'll tell ya. Just being called "wahine" would probably be enough to win me over. LOL. Soooooooo cute and a li'l hot. (NOT a come-on, I'm married, just pointing that out.)
So darned full of cute!
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