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Old 06-30-2013, 10:33 PM
 
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Yahoo!

Pretending you had a wealthy widowed/divorced father or mother dating someone 46 years younger like in the article( James Woods is 66 dating a 20 y/o woman), would you say anything? Or would you leave it alone?

If you say something it might look like all you care about is your inheritance. But if you don't say anything that person could be taking advantage of your parent. Assuming it's not real love at such a big age gap which I don't believe can honestly happen.
I would leave it alone, but being ready to help in any moment.
And I need not parents' inheritance. That is their decision how to use their money.

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Old 07-01-2013, 12:29 AM
 
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if some young girl did that to my old man, she'd be taken to court for sure
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Old 07-01-2013, 07:16 AM
 
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if some young girl did that to my old man, she'd be taken to court for sure
For what?

If one of my parents died and the other found a much younger person to spend their time with, I'd say go for it. I don't care about their money, I have my own. I'd rather they spend every penny of it and enjoy their time on this earth than save it for an inheritance.
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Old 07-01-2013, 07:47 AM
 
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it's more theirs than some bimbo's though , especially if there has been a good child/parent relationship for many years.
No, it's not. It's the old man's money and he is free to spend it on any gold digger he so well chooses. And as soon as the kids start complaining about the inheritance, the old man starts considering changing his will to leave them entirely out of it.
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basically, the young bimbo is a thief, and should be locked up
Nope. Not in a free country. She might be a bimbo, a golddigger adn even a *****, but she's no thief.
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Old 07-01-2013, 08:48 PM
 
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she's a thief in the sense that she is manipulating, and conning the old man into giving his money to her, rather than to his children.

basically, it's fraud.
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Old 07-01-2013, 08:54 PM
 
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she's a thief in the sense that she is manipulating, and conning the old man into giving his money to her, rather than to his children.

basically, it's fraud.
Most men know exactly what they are paying for. It might be worth every penny to them.
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Old 07-01-2013, 10:37 PM
 
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How much time do you spend with this person? Do you sleep with him, help them up in the morning, fix their breakfast, lunch and dinner? Do you drive them to medical appointments? Take them on vacation with you?

If the answer is no, then this is not any of your business. Unless you are ready to take a role in making this person happy, and less lonely...

I really love people who want to manage others lives... The money is not yours. If you are already counting on it as yours, that is a problem.
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Old 07-02-2013, 03:40 AM
 
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Most men know exactly what they are paying for. It might be worth every penny to them.
Men go soft in the head as they age, especially when young women are on the scene.

I've seen it many times, supposedly sensible 60 yr old men being cleaned out by young 20 yr old girls. It's a real shame for the loyal family and really ought to be legislated against.
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Old 07-02-2013, 03:41 AM
 
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How much time do you spend with this person? Do you sleep with him, help them up in the morning, fix their breakfast, lunch and dinner? Do you drive them to medical appointments? Take them on vacation with you?

If the answer is no, then this is not any of your business. Unless you are ready to take a role in making this person happy, and less lonely...

I really love people who want to manage others lives... The money is not yours. If you are already counting on it as yours, that is a problem.

how can the money 'belong' to a new on the scene, young woman, who is only there to take the money and then run?

Like I said, this is fraud.
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Old 07-02-2013, 03:43 AM
 
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and I bet many of the posters here, championing this gold digger, have one themselves.

Too late to smell the coffee - what a sad joke!

Why don't you lot just head out to Asia if you wanna be ripped off, and join the legions of sad and stupid old men out here?
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