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Old 07-02-2013, 04:22 PM
 
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I have decided I can't get back together with my ex, not that he wants me anyways. He sends mixed signals and I give up. For example, he lets me know in round about ways he is single. But he does not regularly spend time with me. He doesn't always take my hints that I am open to seeing him, but I always say yes if he asks. (there is always at least one other person when we do see each other there and always an excuse for spending time together.)He seems to want to know what I'm doing with my time, as though he is trying to figure out if I'm single, but he won't come right out and ask. I'm frustrated and sad he doesn't seem to want to work things out. No, I do not even kiss him let alone have sex with him when I see him. And he does not try. He seems hesitant to tell me I look nice though I feel he is attracted to me still and he is a little flirty. (Not that he told me often I look nice when we were together. Though I believe he did with the woman after me who was out of shape.) WTF

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Old 07-02-2013, 04:25 PM
 
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WTF is right.

Do you want advice or are you just sharing your thoughts?
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Old 07-02-2013, 04:28 PM
 
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Why do you want to even deal with this drama?
Cut him out and move on, unless you like drama I guess.
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Old 07-02-2013, 04:28 PM
 
Location: Tricity, PL
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He is just nosy but not interested in a relationship.
Move on.
BTW: out of shape women can still look nice. So, maybe a great shape is not the priority for your ex.
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Old 07-02-2013, 04:29 PM
 
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No, I have decided to move on. It's just hard when there are mutual friends. (And I haven't found anyone yet though I really made an effort to.)
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Old 07-02-2013, 04:30 PM
 
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He is just nosy but not interested in a relationship.
Move on.
BTW: out of shape women can still look nice. So, maybe a great shape is not the priority for your ex.
Yeah, it's hard to believe someone is just nosy, but it must be something along those lines. You are right, being in shape isn't always high priority for a man.
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Old 07-02-2013, 04:31 PM
 
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Ok good glad that's settled.
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Old 07-02-2013, 04:32 PM
 
Location: Florida
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If he is your ex....then E X P A N D on that decision. Sounds like you are both playing childish games with each other. What's the point?
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Old 07-02-2013, 04:34 PM
 
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Loving you
Isn't the right thing to do
How can I
Ever change things that I feel?
If I could
Maybe I'd give you my world
How can I
When you won't take it from me?
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Old 07-02-2013, 04:37 PM
 
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I'm not trying to play a game. I do feel we are dancing around a bit though. I hoped he'd try a lot harder to win me back otherwise I wouldn't have even started this stuff , so I am disappointed. Just an ego thing I guess because I don't understand (what I'm trying to figure out with this thread.) why bother with me if you're going to act like this? Is it just that I don't want to understand he doesn't want me?

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