older virgin (dating, long-term, marriage, girls)

[as23623]

Hey guys,

It never happened to me in college, then I had an accident my mid 20s and was down and out for a while.

Here I am in my early 30s and still a virgin. I plan to lose it soon, as I've got some forthcoming dates scheduled with different girls.

My question to you guys is: what should I be wary of? How would some girls try to take advantage of an older virgin like me? I plan to play around with girls for a while before considering anything long term. Should I go for younger girls who are less inclined to sucker me into marriage or anything long-term?

[*Sixy*]

Hire a hooker.

[Joe the Photog]

It doesn't worry me that you're in your 30s and are still a virgin. It worries me that you're in your 30s talking about "girls."

[hawaiiancoconut]

get what you can, but make your intentions clear.

[Raena77]

Don't be rough. Savior it. Wear a rainjacket. If you are banging every gal what makes you think they aren't as well?

[BostonMike7]

Wear a condom and remember "When in doubt, pull it out".

[Moe'sTavern]

Originally Posted by Joe the Photog

It doesn't worry me that you're in your 30s and are still a virgin. It worries me that you're in your 30s talking about "girls."

This

[*Sixy*]

Originally Posted by hawaiiancoconut

get what you can, but make your intentions clear.

Yes, Absolutely!
Thank you for stating that!

[STT Resident]

Originally Posted by *Sixy*

Hire a hooker.

This. All you want to do is lose your virginity with no strings attached so rather than go through all the convolutions of dating and worrying about what she might be after and what you should seek to avoid, just find a professional and get it over and done with. It's like learning to drive a car - you ride along with a professional for a while until you know what you're doing behind the wheel and then you go out on your own and start to learn about and appreciate the finer details of what's under the hood.

[zentropa]

Do not use porn as an instruction video.

Prepare to be struck with nervous impotence the first time. It happens to guys like you who place more value on the act than the person who has chosen to be intimate with you.