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"Well I enjoyed our date and now I'd like to have intercourse with you because I'm a virgin and need to get that out of the way, as long as you understand that that's all it is ..."
Prepare to be struck with nervous impotence the first time. It happens to guys like you who place more value on the act than the person who has chosen to be intimate with you.
Very good points here!
I'd add don't use alcohol before the act either. Sure fire way to keep the worm wiggly.
"Well I enjoyed our date and now I'd like to have intercourse with you because I'm a virgin and need to get that out of the way, as long as you understand that that's all it is ..."
Yeah, right. That'll go down like a zinc cupcake.
Well when you say it like that...LMAO
I think what he was getting at was that he should be up-front and let these "girls" know that he's only looking for a ONS or casual sex sort of thing and has no interest in the actual person.
I think what he was getting at was that he should be up-front and let these "girls" know that he's only looking for a ONS or casual sex sort of thing and has no interest in the actual person.
And that he is unlikely to be able to "perform" or give her an orgasm otherwise. Hey sign me up! LOL!
I think what he was getting at was that he should be up-front and let these "girls" know that he's only looking for a ONS or casual sex sort of thing and has no interest in the actual person.
That's why the best advice is to go to a professional. I mean, seriously, he says he has all these dates lined up so what's he going to do - muck around trying to explain that he wants to get laid with no strings attached and probably make a complete fumble of it all the way around? All the money he spends on these "dates" hoping just to lose his virginity will probably amount to way more than him just paying for a decent pro who knows what she's doing and expects nothing more ...
Keep it to yourself, dont advertise it. A male virgin is socialy eqauated with a female ****. Telling a woman who may consider having sex with you that she is your first, is exactly and precisely identical to said woman telling you that she sleeps with every man who crosses her path, and has had 100s of partners. Thats Reality
It never happened to me in college, then I had an accident my mid 20s and was down and out for a while.
Here I am in my early 30s and still a virgin. I plan to lose it soon, as I've got some forthcoming dates scheduled with different girls.
My question to you guys is: what should I be wary of? How would some girls try to take advantage of an older virgin like me? I plan to play around with girls for a while before considering anything long term. Should I go for younger girls who are less inclined to sucker me into marriage or anything long-term?
But why not go for the long-term to begin with? Even if you are able to successfully accomplish your objective, surely it would be much more special and rewarding, if you were to do so with someone you loved, and who loved you too?? Why try to play around with girls when you can have their whole hearts instead?
That's why the best advice is to go to a professional. I mean, seriously, he says he has all these dates lined up so what's he going to do - muck around trying to explain that he wants to get laid with no strings attached and probably make a complete fumble of it all the way around? All the money he spends on these "dates" hoping just to lose his virginity will probably amount to way more than him just paying for a decent pro who knows what she's doing and expects nothing more ...
Yup, I agree. Cut to the chase, hire someone and get it over with. He's not looking for it to be with someone special so I don't see the reason to waste his time and money.
All this 'professional' talk is fine, what happens if the guy gets caught up in a sting of sorts and winds up in jail or fines or worse, made it on the 'pervs' lists that a lot of cities are doing to discourage prostitution.
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Even if you are able to successfully accomplish your objective, surely it would be much more special and rewarding, if you were to do so with someone you loved, and who loved you too?? Why try to play around with girls when you can have their whole hearts instead?
