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Old 07-13-2013, 07:06 PM
 
Location: Bellingham, WA
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Women go to enormous efforts everyday, most of it unconscious, to suppress their natural friendliness and kindness around mem they aren't super close to.

That's because, if we don't, many men take normal friendliness as a binding contract for a NSA f*ck. And they can become verbally or physically violent if we say they misinterpreted.
This is exactly why I never assume a woman is interested in me just because she's being friendly. The downside of this is, if she actually does want something more I won't have a clue unless she spells it out for me as plainly as possible, and that's not likely.
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Old 07-13-2013, 07:19 PM
 
Location: Brooklyn, NY
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No. Dating has next to nothing to do with looks. The fact that so many people think it does is why there are so many disgruntled posters on here. That and this obsession with categorizing the genders in useless ways and assuming that the individuals that they are interacting with adhere to those categorizations.
Who told you that lie? Lol, during a first date looks are everything if you aren't easy on the eyes don't expect another date, personality only comes into play when the women/man deems you attractive enough to be a possible partner.
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Old 07-13-2013, 07:22 PM
 
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I'm under no illusion that any women would find me attractive, I pretty much know I'm an ugly guy.
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Old 07-13-2013, 07:24 PM
 
Location: South-Western New Jersey
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This is exactly why I never assume a woman is interested in me just because she's being friendly. The downside of this is, if she actually does want something more I won't have a clue unless she spells it out for me as plainly as possible, and that's not likely.
Agreed 100%. I've taken this step also.
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Old 07-13-2013, 10:03 PM
 
Location: Center of the universe
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This is exactly why I never assume a woman is interested in me just because she's being friendly. The downside of this is, if she actually does want something more I won't have a clue unless she spells it out for me as plainly as possible, and that's not likely.
I learned this lesson long ago. I assume nobody is or has ever been interested, and I'm pretty much right.
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Old 07-13-2013, 10:21 PM
 
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I assume they all want me until something suggests otherwise.
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Old 07-13-2013, 11:25 PM
 
Location: Nashville
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Can somebody close this silly thread already.. Argh.. Seriously, some people have too much time on their hands then to keep responding to such non-sense.. This person thinks they are so beautiful, handsome, hot , sexy.. This person is too tall short, ugly, fat, too blah blah..

Freakin stop worrying so much about how sexy all you think you are, especially you women, and do something more productive with your lives.. Yeah, this thread applies to the opposite gender way more than to the one listed.

End of Story!
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Old 07-13-2013, 11:46 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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Can somebody close this silly thread already.. Argh..
lol!
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Old 07-14-2013, 02:09 AM
 
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Women go to enormous efforts everyday, most of it unconscious, to suppress their natural friendliness and kindness around mem they aren't super close to.

That's because, if we don't, many men take normal friendliness as a binding contract for a NSA f*ck. And they can become verbally or physically violent if we say they misinterpreted.

See threads by tipitop, westphillydude, or any PUA forum, for examples. Or news stories about rapes and murders.
Legalizing affordable easily accessible prostitution starts looking better and better doesn't it.
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Old 07-14-2013, 02:34 AM
 
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Women go to enormous efforts everyday, most of it unconscious, to suppress their natural friendliness and kindness around mem they aren't super close to.

That's because, if we don't, many men take normal friendliness as a binding contract for a NSA f*ck. And they can become verbally or physically violent if we say they misinterpreted.

See threads by tipitop, westphillydude, or any PUA forum, for examples. Or news stories about rapes and murders.
And many of these women do want a NSA f*ck. Maybe you should blame it on them for ruining it for other nice women out there?



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