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Old 08-04-2013, 06:59 PM
 
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Why is that kind of article on aks men? Shouldn't that be on some woman website?

And if that link were posted immediately on the first page this thread wouldn't need to go so far!

Oh and I can't read, remember? I need someone to read it to me!
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Old 08-04-2013, 07:00 PM
 
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I don't do 'signals' or 'signs'. I come right out with my intentions and then I'm often seen as 'easy' or 'desperate' because of it.

So really, it's no win. I could be subtle and have guys irritated that I was being to coy, or I could come right out and state my intentions/feelings and be rejected for being too aggressive and unladylike.
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Old 08-04-2013, 07:02 PM
 
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I don't do 'signals' or 'signs'. I come right out with my intentions and then I'm often seen as 'easy' or 'desperate' because of it.

So really, it's no win. I could be subtle and have guys irritated that I was being to coy, or I could come right out and state my intentions/feelings and be rejected for being too aggressive and unladylike.
I for one appreciate "direct, straight and blunt".

Then again not everyone comes originally from the NYC area that otherwise can take it.
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Old 08-04-2013, 07:03 PM
 
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I don't do 'signals' or 'signs'. I come right out with my intentions and then I'm often seen as 'easy' or 'desperate' because of it.

So really, it's no win. I could be subtle and have guys irritated that I was being to coy, or I could come right out and state my intentions/feelings and be rejected for being too aggressive and unladylike.
Have you ever just grabbed a guy, threw him to a chair and just told him you were interested?

I mean, if that ever happened to me I'd be scared for a minute, but at least you would have broke the ice!
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Old 08-04-2013, 07:04 PM
 
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Why is that kind of article on aks men? Shouldn't that be on some woman website?

And if that link were posted immediately on the first page this thread wouldn't need to go so far!

Oh and I can't read, remember? I need someone to read it to me!
Maybe some woman (hint...hint lol!) can read it to you like a bedtime story.
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Old 08-04-2013, 07:05 PM
 
Location: Pa
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Why is that kind of article on aks men? Shouldn't that be on some woman website?

And if that link were posted immediately on the first page this thread wouldn't need to go so far!

Oh and I can't read, remember? I need someone to read it to me!
Asska men dot com.
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Old 08-04-2013, 07:06 PM
 
Location: Pa
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I don't do 'signals' or 'signs'. I come right out with my intentions and then I'm often seen as 'easy' or 'desperate' because of it.

So really, it's no win. I could be subtle and have guys irritated that I was being to coy, or I could come right out and state my intentions/feelings and be rejected for being too aggressive and unladylike.
Yep I'm the same.
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Old 08-04-2013, 07:07 PM
 
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Maybe some woman (hint...hint lol!) can read it to you like a bedtime story.
If it's a bed time story I want her to sing soft kitty to me!

edit: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UGt5H3_ygdQ

Song!
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Old 08-04-2013, 07:07 PM
 
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I for one appreciate "direct, straight and blunt".

Then again not everyone comes originally from the NYC area that otherwise can take it.
I've always been a fan of that as well, and that goes both ways...if you're interested let me know, if you're not interested let me know. None of this vague BS that so many people are good at.

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Have you ever just grabbed a guy, threw him to a chair and just told him you were interested?

I mean, if that ever happened to me I'd be scared for a minute, but at least you would have broke the ice!
Nah, I don't harass and I would never be physically violent with someone to get their attention.

Regardless, the last guy I approached I went straight up to him, bought him a drink and then after chatting for a bit asked him out to grab coffee sometime. He declined, but thus is life.
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Old 08-04-2013, 07:07 PM
 
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Maybe some woman (hint...hint lol!) can read it to you like a bedtime story.
Let's go. He can lay in the middle. YOU and I on either side.I will read you turn the pages.
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