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For women it's easy. Guy has orgasam, youre good in bed.
For guys on the other hand, it's a complicated mess. Who the he** really knows what's good for most women.
I don't know about this. I had a guy friend that said the last women he had sex with it was pillow sex. It was boring but he still finished the deed. She wasn't up for any of the fun stuff either. Needless to say he wasn't happy.
There are alot of women that lay on their backs and rolls their eyes to the back of their heads waiting for it to be over. And they seem to think they are the best lay a guy has ever had.
When it is a first time with someone else, or someone you have not been with much, I can see where you would not be as sure.
When it is an LTR, then I think you would have had sex enough to not only learn and know your partner, but actively work to improve yourself with them.
(Also important, you could be great in bed with one person, and bad with the next, since people are all different).
Women don't initiate sex so if we would base how good a man is on that. Then all men are bad in bed.
That's not true, maybe a less percentage of women initiate sex than men, but to say women never initate is not true. That being said, I would think if the guy is initiating and the woman is eagerly willing, then you're probably good in bed.
If she's not yelling out obscenities (uncontrollably), and pounding your chest and begging for more, then you've got room for improvement.
It's especially gratifying when it's the nice, innocent, "proper" girl that does that. Funny, but people are totally a different self in the bedroom...
LoL sorry this thread is funny because ...well....the guy I used to date was really bad and he thought he was good. Sighhh...I did not have the heart to tell him soo.....
Me too MIMI! So, I just broke it off by telling him I couldn't give him what he wanted....
So just had this convo with my friend where she said there are two thungs you'll never know about yourself 1) what you physically look like in other people's eye and 2) how good you are in bed. And I guess she's right, I mean everyone thinks they're good in bed, I've never met anyone who thought they were bad in bed, and yet there are plenty of people who are lousy lovers. So how do you know if you really are good in bed? Because most people aren't going to tell their sexual partners they're bad in bed.
If you're good in bed, the guys you're with will tell you. Or you'll be able to tell by their level of enthusiasm.
You out-do each other in meeting standards of pleasure for your partner. Treat me good, I'll treat you better. Make it last in every way, every day, in and out of the sheets. The strongest, biggest sex organ is your brain. Make it work for your partner, to work for you.
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