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No, but I've faked it because the guy had absolutely no idea what he was doing.
How's he supposed learn what to do if you don't tell him, and lead him to believe he does know what he's doing by faking it?
I've never understood that reasoning. It seems like the most self-defeating thing a woman could do in a relationship. I've read of cases where a guy went through a whole marriage thinking he was satisfying his wife, until she suddenly divorced him. The poor guy didn't know what hit him. He said, "I would have done anything for that woman! Why didn't she tell me what she needed from me?" Tragic!
If you tell the guy what he needs to do, then everyone has more fun--win, win!
No, but I've faked it because the guy had absolutely no idea what he was doing.
That's kind of what this thread was about. I don't think it would be a good idea to fake with someone you actually were in a relationship with, but I can see the merit in doing so in a ONS scenario when all you really want to do is go to sleep.
How's he supposed learn what to do if you don't tell him, and lead him to believe he does know what he's doing by faking it?
I've never understood that reasoning. It seems like the most self-defeating thing a woman could do in a relationship. I've read of cases where a guy went through a whole marriage thinking he was satisfying his wife, until she suddenly divorced him. The poor guy didn't know what hit him. He said, "I would have done anything for that woman! Why didn't she tell me what she needed from me?" Tragic!
If you tell the guy what he needs to do, then everyone has more fun--win, win!
It was a one night stand. I didn't feel it my place to teach someone I was having sex with once what he needed to do.
After my first child, I was no interested. I chose to fake it until I could make it.
Bad wife! Bad!!! I wouldn't want to do it with my SO if they had absolutely no interest or desire. I know it takes some time for women after having a child, and I'd be okay with that. I want you to want me (Cheap Trick FTW!)
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