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Old 08-27-2013, 06:25 PM
 
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You are at the gym to workout and the trainer should keep his touchy feely hands off of you unless touching you is a must during the workout.
Both of you need to learn how to keep business and pleasure separate.
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Old 08-30-2013, 11:26 AM
 
Location: NYC
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]yeah,, he could be trying to "sell me", but he's already tried to by telling me outright to buy more sessions from him and to buy supplements from him. I already told him no so he hasn't really asked me as much. I doubt he's flirting with me thinking it's going to get me to buy more sessions from him, but who knows... I like him as a person which is why I've bothered to even post this, but I'm cautious because when I first started training with him, we were talking about something and it somehow came to him telling me about how he's still not over his long term ex-gf, and how he's seeing someone platonically, and has no desire to be physical with her. My instincts tells me he's into me because he seems like the type to be pretty open about his feelings, but he can't be that open in our case because he is my trainer. He probably likes me as a person too and just can't help that he's attracted to me, but if I were to bring going out up, I have a feeling he would deny any feelings beyond a professioanl relationship.
Look fellas, here is proof that these tactics work...
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Old 09-01-2013, 05:35 PM
 
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I just remembered this today. I was talking to him once and he asked what I was doing that night. I told him I was goig to take my friend shopping. He then said "take me shopping!". Then he mentioned a specific store and Im like I dont know that store. I didnt think he was serious so I didnt pursue it and didnt think mich about it until all this stomach and waist touching.
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Old 09-01-2013, 06:04 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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Yeah, I'd probably treat it the same as a waitress being flirty with me..... it is good for bizness.....

Not trying to quell any self esteem you have about it..... I'm sure you're an attractive woman...I'm just saying....
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Old 09-01-2013, 06:11 PM
 
Location: Where Dance Music comes first
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Touching is always a good thing. At least you're certain that he/she doesn't find you disgusting.
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