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Old 09-05-2013, 02:56 PM
 
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I'm a thinker like Dew and JJ. If I'm really bothered there's no sense in me getting into it right away because sometimes I don't know what's really bothering me. I like to make sure it's worth addressing first, and also make sure I'm not blaming him for something that is not entirely his fault.

I do not raise my voice in anger - never have, nor do I get physical in any way.
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Old 09-05-2013, 03:01 PM
 
Location: Glasgow, uk
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It all depends on the situation. If he's done something stupid I would probably laugh at him and let stew however if he hurt me or really pissed me off I'd have to walk away until I calmed down then discus it. I don't like fighting with my SO it really gets me down so I'd rather talk about it and sort out the problem........I would be a little off with him for a couple of days though
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Old 09-05-2013, 03:01 PM
 
Location: Virginia
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I've never believed in the concept of "don't go to bed angry." Most of the time going to bed angry means I get to think about what I want to say, and in the morning I can be calmer and more rational about what I'm upset about.

Also, there are few things more frustrating than a guy not taking you seriously because "you're so cute/sexy when you're mad." We were talking about resisting urges in that other thread--if that sentence is uttered I really do have to resist the urge to stab someone with a fork.
well I'm sorry but you ladies are cute and sexy when you are mad but that doesn't have to mean that we don't take you seriously.
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Old 09-05-2013, 03:04 PM
 
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No man bothers me enough to make me get angry.

I had one here once who annoyed me just by breathing, is that the same thing?

Anyway I told him to pack his bags and go back to his girlfriend. She enjoyed his company and breathing sounds apparently - I did not.
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Old 09-05-2013, 03:16 PM
 
Location: Midwest
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I do nothing
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Old 09-05-2013, 03:23 PM
 
Location: Virginia
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All of the above except putting my hands on him. I'm not violent. I wear my heart on my sleeve though. It may come out now or later but it's going to come out if I care about him.

I once dated a guy who wanted me to hit him when I was angry. He expressed that he wished I would. I dont get that! He was cray cray.
Damn girl you wasted that opportunity, if a man tells you to hit him when you are mad please don't suppress, just swing away and with intent. like a kid on a candy store.
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Old 09-05-2013, 03:30 PM
 
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Damn girl you wasted that opportunity, if a man tells you to hit him when you are mad please don't suppress, just swing away and with intent. like a kid on a candy store.
I'm afraid he'll hit me back. My mother told me never put my hands on a man unless you're ready to get hit back. Plus I can get arrested for that if he calls the cops.

I still don't get why he wanted that anyway. So strange.
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Old 09-05-2013, 03:31 PM
 
Location: Glasgow, uk
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Damn girl you wasted that opportunity, if a man tells you to hit him when you are mad please don't suppress, just swing away and with intent. like a kid on a candy store.
Lol
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Old 09-05-2013, 03:36 PM
 
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Yeah, that's IT for sure!!
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Old 09-05-2013, 03:37 PM
 
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I do nothing
If you don't do anything, then the guy probably will continue doing what makes you mad until you flip your wig and knife knife him a bunch of times.

If the guy tries to make you smile, laugh or just do something to make your day a little better, and you sit there and do nothing, then the guy will probably think you're a prude or you want nothing to do with him.

If you don't express yourself, you will not get the responses from people you want.
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