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Nobody knew my husband was married until I went to a work function with him. People were shocked to find out not only was he married, but he had 4 kids as well.
Good for him! I never discuss my dating/sex life with my coworkers. It's none of their business. Unless they happen to catch me out on a date (which has happened two or three times), they have no idea. Even then, they have no idea of my status with the person they see me out with.
The OP has made me realize that some of my coworkers have probably thought I was gay, though that's a funny assumption to make about a single person in this day and age when gay people can get married and straight people often remain single.
Personally, I would probably not go out with a woman a coworker set me up with, for the simple fact that if/when it ends, I'm then stuck working with my ex's friend.
All the young people I know are already married, or intend to marry. There's nothing biased about the divorce laws. Get yourself a good lawyer, and you can win. That's all it takes, unless the husband has been especially egregious, like physically abusive, or something.
Or, imagine this, have an amicable divorce.
Without attorneys.
ive never heard him talk of a special woman in his life (or man for that matter) and at first i tbougbt he was just very private; but after four years Im thinking this co-worker is gay....the guy is about 56 and his only interest seems to be golf once a week and then a drinkfest after with his buddies at the club what do you think gay or no gay?
Did you know it's 2013? Times have changed and people aren't expected to get married like they were in the 1950s or whatever decade you came out of. Also, what's it to you if he's gay or not?
Did you know it's 2013? Times have changed and people aren't expected to get married like they were in the 1950s or whatever decade you came out of. Also, what's it to you if he's gay or not?
1) he's gay
2) he's extremely shy when it comes to dating
3) he's afraid of getting divorced and losing half his assets
4) the women he's attracted to won't date him
5) he's used to being single for so long why change it now
6) he's secretly using escorts or sugar babes/gigolos
My guess a combo of #5 and #6
No strings attached sex with young pretty women.
While I don't necessarily share his outlook on marriage, you do realize that plenty of people date without intending to marry, right? There's nothing wrong with that, as long as everyone is honest about what they're looking for.
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