An offer you can refuse? (lover, call, partner, internet)
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^^^ You made a point. You absolutely have to TRUST the person... 100+%. You also have to LIKE this kind of activities, and not agree to it because you think you need to please someone.
You need to be absolutely sure that when you say STOP, it will be stopped, on spot.
BTW: I assume, your lover never saw your bedroom ( otherwise he would not ask if you have bed posts). It's that your first time?
^^^ You made a point. You absolutely have to TRUST the person... 100+%. You also have to LIKE this kind of activities, and not agree to it because you think you need to please someone.
You need to be absolutely sure that when you say STOP, it will be stopped, on spot.
Yes yes yes. Trust 100%. I like blindfolds, having to hold still, teasing, etc., but not being able to escape triggers all kinds of bad anxiety for me.
This forum is PG so forgive me if I'm talking in code.
I had a phone call yesterday from a lover, checking I had bed posts.
Yes, he has announced he intends to go there today. With me. Furry handcuff style.
I have never done anything like this and am not sure if I want to (I have control issues ).
What say you people of CD? If someone you like and trust wants to get a bit erm....in charge, would you let them?
Have him loosely tie you up with something flimsy that you could easily get out of if your were feeling insecure. You have the illusion of being restrained but not really!
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Originally Posted by JustJulia
Yes yes yes. Trust 100%. I like blindfolds, having to hold still, teasing, etc., but not being able to escape triggers all kinds of bad anxiety for me.
"triggers all kinds of bad anxiety for me"
The rest is good but who needs anxienty in the bedroom
This forum is PG so forgive me if I'm talking in code.
I had a phone call yesterday from a lover, checking I had bed posts.
Yes, he has announced he intends to go there today. With me. Furry handcuff style.
I have never done anything like this and am not sure if I want to (I have control issues ).
What say you people of CD? If someone you like and trust wants to get a bit erm....in charge, would you let them?
Right up until I wouldn't. Then I would use the safe word.
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